Single, Fabulous, and Festive: How to Own Every Holiday Party and Keep Your Budget Intact

Single, Fabulous, and Festive: How to Own Every Holiday Party and Keep Your Budget Intact

It is only the 3rd of December, and I already have three holiday parties on the calendar this week!

Don’t get me wrong—I’m thrilled to be invited to these festive gatherings, surrounded by friends and good cheer.

Next week, there are two more, followed by another two the week after.

Then, it’s Christmas with family, and before I know it, New Year’s Eve is upon us!

I’m already feeling a little exhausted, and I want to ensure my bank account doesn’t feel the same way. The holiday season has a magical way of turning small expenses into big surprises when the January credit card statement rolls around.

Celebrate the Season with Confidence and Financial Savvy

Holiday parties as a single woman can feel empowering—your time to shine and celebrate your independence!

You don’t need a date or a designer outfit to have a fabulous time.

Instead, embrace the freedom to mingle, meet new people, and celebrate the season your way.


To keep your finances as light as your holiday spirit, consider these tips:

1. Set a Budget for the Season.

Whether it’s gifts, party outfits, or host contributions, decide in advance what you can comfortably spend. This makes it easier to say no to impulse purchases or last-minute expenses.

2. Shop Your Closet.

That little black dress you wore last year? It’s still fabulous! A new accessory or a fun pair of shoes can give it a fresh look without the cost of a new outfit.

3. Bring a Thoughtful, Budget-Friendly Host Gift.

A homemade treat or a heartfelt note can mean just as much as something pricey.

4. Keep Tabs on Dining Out.

Holiday events often come with appetizers, drinks, or meals. Enjoy the offerings, but remember that splitting tabs or ordering extra can add up quickly.

5. Plan Ahead for January.

While you’re enjoying December’s festivities, don’t forget that a new year is around the corner. Avoid financial hangovers by sticking to your holiday spending plan.

Enter the New Year Feeling Empowered

The holiday season is meant to be joyous and fun, not a source of financial or emotional stress.

By keeping your spending in check and embracing the beauty of celebrating solo, you can enter the new year feeling empowered and ready for whatever’s next.

So go ahead, RSVP “Yes!” to those parties.

Dance, laugh, and toast to your incredible self.

After all, you deserve to celebrate!

And remember—a little planning can ensure your holidays are filled with memories, not money worries.

Confidence is your best accessory this holiday season!


Elizabeth Bachman, CPS

Passed Over & P*ssed Off? | Guiding Women Director/Senior Directors in Fortune 1000 companies to be Visible & Valued | Keynote Speaker | Executive Career Coach | Presentation Skills Trainer | Former Opera Director

3 个月

What fabulous advice Betty Pecha! It's easy to get caught up in the buying impulse. What's the best way to decide how much is appropriate?

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