The Silent Battle of Academic Pressure
Dr. Sheetal Nair
Enabler@ DSSG Bespoke Solutions Pvt. Ltd. | New Business Development, Organizational Effectiveness | Columnist in Economic Times, Times of India & Financial Express
Aryan stared at his textbooks, the pages blurring as his mind raced.
"If I don’t top this exam, what will people say?"
It was 2 AM, and he hadn’t slept in days. Every time he closed his eyes, he saw disappointment—his parents' expectations, his teachers' advice, his friends’ results on social media.
His heart pounded. He wasn’t just studying for an exam—he was fighting for his self-worth.
Because somewhere along the way, grades had become his identity.
?? Academic Pressure: A Silent Epidemic
Today's students are caught in a rat race where success is measured not by learning, but by how well you compete.
?? Research shows that 1 in 3 students experience severe exam stress, leading to anxiety, sleep deprivation, and burnout.
?? Social media amplifies this pressure, making students compare themselves to curated success stories while hiding their struggles.
We often assume high expectations drive excellence, but they can also:
? Create fear instead of motivation.
? Cause self-doubt and imposter syndrome.
? Replace learning with survival mode.
Aryan wasn’t alone—thousands of students feel like they’re running on a treadmill that never stops.
That night, Aryan reached a breaking point. He wanted to quit.
But then, his mother said something that made him pause: "Do you want to be successful, or do you want to be at peace?"
For the first time, he realized success wasn’t about beating others—it was about progressing at his own pace.
? Breaking Free from the Stress Cycle
How do we help students reclaim their mental peace?
? Redefine success – Learning isn’t about perfection; it’s about growth and resilience.
? Combat comparison – Social media shows the highlights, not the struggles. Your journey is uniquely yours.
? Celebrate small wins – Not every success comes with a trophy. Every step forward matters.
? Encourage mindful career choices – The “perfect career” doesn’t exist. The right career aligns with your values.
Aryan’s story is real for many. But change starts when we shift our focus from achievement to well-being.
Because students are not machines for grades—they are individuals who deserve to learn without breaking under pressure.
?? Have you ever felt the weight of expectations? How did you deal with it? Let’s share and support one another in the comments.
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4 天前Great article highlighting the sad reality. Academics is just a part of life, it should never be made greater than LIFE itself
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4 天前Fact Revealed..!
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4 天前Very well said!