The Silent Architects

Shifting our focus from "views" to "values" can change the narrative.

Shabbir Hussain Imam

Values are the silent architects of any society, shaping its very essence. From the magnificent structures of a country to the personal details of a person's existence, these principles serve as the invisible influence, shaping and steering every choice, every action. They infiltrate all aspects of life, providing a structure by which we engage with our surrounding environment.

By embracing moderation, trust, kindness, and respect, we can authentically represent Islam.

When we encounter someone, we instinctively measure them through the lens of their values. If they display virtuous habits, a positive impression is inevitable; however, the absence of these qualities often sparks a different, less favorable reaction. Our values, whether consciously or unconsciously, carve out our place in society, coloring how others perceive us, and more critically, how we perceive ourselves.

In this complex web of human relations, Islam stands as a beacon of wisdom, intertwining the best of human values into a singular, cohesive system that is the very bedrock of a thriving, harmonious society. Among these values, moderation emerges as a key pillar—an essential trait for a successful, balanced life. The consequences of inflation—whether emotional, social, or intellectual—are clear: imbalance destroys the delicate equilibrium necessary for growth.

Moderation is essential for success and integrity in life, as highlighted in the Qur'an and the Prophet's example. It promotes balance, kindness, and connection, strengthening our role in society.

Moderation isn't just a guideline; it’s the golden thread that, when woven into the fabric of our lives, leads us toward success, allowing us to play our part in society with integrity and effectiveness. The Qur'an, in its timeless wisdom, exhorts us to live with moderation, citing those who, in their spending, avoid both excess and neglect, opting instead for the middle path. As the Qur'an eloquently puts it, "And when they spend, they do not blow unnecessarily, nor do they act foolishly, but they adopt the right path with moderation" (Sura al-Furqan). The moderation balance is mirrored in the life of the Prophet of Islam (peace be upon him). His gentle disposition and openness serve as a model for us all. The Qur'an acknowledges this inherent kindness: "Because of the mercy of Allah, you are soft-hearted towards them, and if you were bad-mouthed and hard-hearted, all of them would have escaped from you." (Al-Imran). The Prophet’s (pbuh) gentle nature is not an accident; it is a deliberate expression of mercy and wisdom. He once said, “Verily, Allah loves mildness and bestows upon it all that He does not bestow on severity.” Mildness is not a weakness; it is a profound strength that invites connection, fosters peace, and nurtures compassion.

In the context of family, law, and even personal interactions, Islam teaches us that gentleness leads to mercy, while harshness breeds nothing but suffering. Those who embody this virtue become a source of light, their presence like a sweet fragrance that changes the atmosphere around them. Contrast this with the hardened soul, whose demeanor repels, whose very being induces discomfort. The Prophet (pbuh) cautioned, “The worst man in my ummah is the one whose eagerness makes people afraid to talk to him.”

Trust—an additional foundation of Islamic ethics—strengthens this fragile equilibrium. It represents a holy connection, not just among people but also between humankind and the Creator. Without trust, connections weaken, and communities fall apart. This sacred bond, if cultivated, can serve as the basis for a flourishing community. Nevertheless, for it to thrive, it needs to be nurtured within our connection to Allah. The Qur'an advises us, "O you who have faith!" Do not violate the trust placed in you by Allah and the Messenger, nor break your promises, and you are aware (of these matters)" (Al-Anfal). The Prophet (pbuh), recognized for his honesty and reliability, embodied these principles and became known as Al-Amin (The Trustworthy). Trust serves as the foundation for all successful relationships, be they personal, familial, or societal. A community founded on trust is one that can thrive and endure.

Yet, despite the timeless guidance of Islam, we find ourselves drifting further from these values. In the rush for “views” and fleeting fame, we have allowed the sanctity of human connections and moral integrity to deteriorate. We watch as families crumble, as relationships once sacred become mere commodities in the pursuit of online popularity. The very essence of our values—modesty, trust, respect—has been cast aside, sacrificed for a momentary surge of attention.

In the world today, it’s almost as if a new religion has emerged—one of instant gratification, of viral videos and fleeting moments of fame. These false idols encourage us to forsake our core values, to mock the sacred in exchange for the hollow satisfaction of a "like" or a "share." Our families are fractured, relationships tarnished, and the true dignity of human interaction has been sacrificed on the altar of social media. What was once considered sacred is now reduced to a mere spectacle.

The Qur'an and Prophet emphasize kindness, mildness as strength fostering compassion and connection.

There is hope as Islam, a faith of tranquility and action, offers a path forward. This requires us to revisit the principles that once united and strengthened us. The movement to abandon these principles on social media isn't the end. By shifting our focus from “views” to “values,” we can alter the narrative. Embracing moderation, trust, kindness, and respect will help us reflect the true teachings of Islam and present an authentic image to the world. As we enter the new year, let's commit to prioritizing values, aiming for lasting success rooted in virtue and compassion.

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