Signs that shows your “Marriage is over” and not worth fighting anymore
Sachin Chawla (Peace and Performance Mentor)
Peace & Performance Mentor | Helping Entrepreneurs & Leaders achieve calm, clarity, confidence & peak performance.
Since the time we are born, our parents start dreaming of our marriage and want us to settle in life. As per Indian society, getting married means finally settled in life.
Sounds funny, but its fact of Indian society.
Marriage is one of the most beautiful phases of life and we all wish to enter and willing to enjoy this wonderful moment and from there on this beautiful journey too lifelong.
Marriage is not about tying knot of just 2 physical bodies, its tying strong knot of 2 beautiful souls.
Marriage is all about when 2 beautiful souls from different culture, different background, different upbringing, different mindset, different values , different programming in subconscious accepting each other uniting forever with open heart.
We do lot of preparations before marriage to ensure happy married life. Like we study hard to get good job or to settle in business so that we settle financially to ensure we must not face any financial issues after marriage , we plan to own a dream house , we buy everything new to enjoy that moment and also go for honey moon to create life time memories. We prepare for each and everything before marriage and after that too. Isn’t it?
But Unfortunately, sometimes, gradually circumstances get changed which no one ever thought of and no one ever prepared for such unfavorable circumstances.
No, not really, as no one ever thought about it, as it can go worst ever too.
Here are the few signs which shows marriage is over and not worth of fighting anymore
1) When only one partner is happy, and that happiness comes at the cost of another partner’s happiness
2) When blame game starts too much.
3) When “discussion” gets converted into “arguments”
4) When no one sees any good quality in other.
5) When “EGO” is supreme
6) When there is no difference between Self-respect and Ego
7) When one partner seeks to cut other partner from friends and family or whatever you like to do, It’s like controlling other partner.
8) When “WE” gets converted in to “ME”
There can be much more signs but above mentioned are amongst top
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