Shut Up and Listen
Brendon Baker
Guiding Leaders Towards What Matters | Named Top12 Emerging Thought Leader 2024 | Director at Mecro Group | Top Leadership Author | >$11B in Strategic Improvements
Here’s A Wild Idea: Listen to Wise People
Through almost an accident I’ve found myself with two different coaches at the same time. One to help me lift heavier things and another to help me make better videos. What’s interesting is what happened this week: they both shared little gems of wisdom with me.
The first gem:?“on days when you just don’t feel like it - something is better than nothing. The art of consistency isn’t about perfection - but rather about moving forward despite imperfection”
The second gem:?“When you’re taking on a new thing - encourage yourself with kindness. Start with the intention of doing fifteen takes in a row in one phrase, just like you'd expect to repeat a piano phrase fifteen times to start learning it properly. Treat repetition as training, not failure.”
Both are quite simple, but both incredibly useful. And both came into play for me in various ways this week. The point here is that the vast majority of us (myself very often included here) think that we should just push through by ourselves, on our own accord. After all “we can do it” - right?
But how often do we step back and reflect on the sheer arrogance of that statement. Sure we absolutely can do it ourselves - but should we?? And at what cost?
In a time when we are all more connected than ever before, why are you not employing across your life the wisdom of those who are masters of their domain?
I certainly plan to moving forward.
Something To Ponder: Perpetual Pet Problems
As a change leader - want to know the fastest way to raise a group’s opinion of you?
Figure out what is often complained about but never resolved - and then resolve it!
The crazy thing is that it’s not often something big - it’s usually just little annoyances. 85% of the time it’s related to one of two things:
That’s it.
If you can find ways to talk more (or less), and use information more efficiently then you’ve just fostered a group of change allies - a very valuable asset indeed!
What are the perpetual pet problems in your teams?
A Quick Note: Fake Consultation
If your ‘consultation process’ isn’t going to change the outcome,
Why bother consulting?
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You’re better off spending the time and effort (rapidly) showing that you were right.
Where’s Brendon Now? - The Everyday PM Podcast
A couple months ago?Ann?and I caught up for another chat on The Everyday PM Podcast. (Thanks for having me on again Ann) and the episode was just released!
This time we covered the core facets of change leadership - and why project managers should care. We cover:
- How to ensure your change/project is valuable and purposeful (without building in unnecessary complexity!)
- How to pull up from the weeds of project management
- Why we should think about change in terms of ripples (and the risk if you don't)
- How to cut out scope before you even start
- When to kill a project, and when to pivot
- The equation behind why people do things (and don't)
- The art of getting it right upfront (and a simple tool to do so!)
- How to ensure effective, valuable reporting throughout and beyond your project
- Why you shouldn't close a project as soon as it's delivered
Check out the content-packed episode at the links below.
Watch:?https://lnkd.in/geqH2g6N
Listen:?https://lnkd.in/gZwfQ2Nu
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See you next week,
BB
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