Shoulds and Musts
We all have a list of things we tell ourselves we "should" do.?The thing is, what we should do never happens.?What we do are the things we "must" do.
Willpower is short-lived and over-rated.?Intrinsic motivation driven by the desire to grow is not.
If you find you're continually telling yourself that you should do something, either change it to a "must" or stop talking about it.