Should you let a man lead you? ??

Recently my husband was asked, "Is it hard to support a strong, visionary, and driven woman like Ingrid?" ??

It took him by surprise. He retorted, "Why should it be hard for a man to support a woman in her power?" ??

My own father was totally incapable ?? of standing in the radiance of an empowered woman, so I know some men may find it difficult to handle a woman who knows what the frig she wants... and is determined to get it. ??

The truth is, I made a sacred vow ?? that I’d rather be single and alone than be with a domineering, overbearing, emotionally immature male who can’t hold space for the divine feminine. ??

It’s a joke to be tied down to a man who needs you to play small to make him feel significant.

The dependence on men that we have perpetuated in our culture keeps women trapped in abusive relationships and toxic family drama, and limits their ability to support themselves and their children... and it must end. ?

When I met Chris, what he loved ?? about me was my drive, focus, and fiyah ??. If a man can’t handle that, support it, and claim success in his own right, you’ll always be secretly competing with his insecure ego.

If you want a man who can enjoy and celebrate your diva power and vision for your empire ?? (or would love for your current partner to get with the friggin’ program), there are three major shifts you must make before you drive yourself, your relationship, and your business into the ground! ?

What I’m about to share with you will activate your divine femme leadership and reveal to you the huge opportunity you have to leverage your knowledge (no matter what stage of business you’re at) into massive income and impact. ??

Women are ready for a collective rising.

We’re ready to see our sisters escape the shadows of their men as they refuse to surrender to outdated gender roles and financial inequalities. ??

We don’t have to hate men to love ourselves enough to take a stand for our divine feminine power! In fact, the divine masculine will follow our lead as we reclaim our birthright to riches through our sacred service on this planet! ??

SHIFT #1: Get comfortable talking about money because it’s not really about the money. ??

Diva, if your life stability and financial well-being hinge on your man, you could end up royally screwed and alone without a way to support yourself. ?

There is absolutely nothing shameful about wanting your own money, and if your man is threatened by your desire to create wealth, that’s his shizz to deal with, not yours.

With the opportunity available for you to get in on the eLearning industry that’s estimated to be worth $325 billion by 2025, there’s no excuse for you to not have your own money ??. Whether you’re still in a corporate 9 to 5 job, a single mom, or a home-maker, you can start your empire from anywhere in the world and make bank—when you have the right systems in place.

Money is really about you claiming your decision-making power and lifestyle freedom ?. Buh-bye victimhood and being a kept woman! ??

SHIFT #2: Release your need for a man to lead. ??

It’s not your partner’s job to support your every need: you are the CEO of your life whether you have a business or not and whether you work with your partner or not. ??

Even though my husband is a savant when it comes to all things tech, engineering, and systems-based, he is not naturally wired to be an entrepreneur. Waiting for him to give my business direction and a vision would be a recipe for disaster. ??

While he is a crucial part of our team and I couldn’t be more grateful for him, I can’t expect him to do what is contrary to his nature.

When a driven woman waits around for permission, censors her truth with her partner, and ‘lets’ the man lead, she sacrifices her soul. Before long, the relationship she has will be hanging on by a thread ?? because she’ll be constantly playing emotional tug of war with her partner. And both the man and the woman will suffer. ??

SHIFT #3: Slay the CEO way. ??

With everything I have on my plate at once?—company growth, content creation, hiring team members, inhouse and outhouse ads management, sales team training, serving clients, and more?—I can sometimes feel like my head is full to the brim! ??

This is why I’m always in expansion, always moving at the speed of light, and always hiring more support for my growing empire. I take 100% responsibility for my business and embody my CEO frequency 24/7. It’s not optional, and it’s no one else’s job but mine. ??

At the end of the day, my husband is my partner, not my therapist or my coach!

Running off to my husband and having an emotional breakdown because there’s a miscommunication with a client or a team issue I’m unhappy about just isn’t an option. Of course, this happened enough times in the beginning of my business that I’m surprised he didn’t leave me! ??

Now, together we have the honor of teaching women how to speed up the process of building their empires, so they can sell high-end packages ??, often within a matter of days or a few short weeks. I cracked the code to a streamlined system that gets women results on repeat ??... how could I keep that to myself?

Don’t fool yourself, gorgeous. ??

If you haven’t gotten on a call ?? with one of my divas, do it ?? ceodivachat.com.

Being a serious CEO (who still knows how to play and bring pleasure into her life and work) means having high-level support and an impeccable strategy in place... all backed by a deep emotional and energetic resonance with your soul work. ??

You’re smart enough, talented enough, knowledgeable enough, pretty enough, and simply just enough, enough, enough!!! ????

You’re allowed to be heard. You’re allowed to be seen.

Let your man love you... while you step up and claim your right to lead. ??

Claim your private session, diva. Book in your free chat ?? with one of my divas here ?? ceodivachat.com.

Lots of love and divine riches,

Ingrid Arna

Leading 7-Figure Diva Strategist