Should I Promote or Pursue My Passion?
Hey Mama! Every Monday and Thursday, I want to remind and empower you to Redefine Motherhood on your terms - without the dreaded mom guilt. This is your way to find yourself.
Here is your guidance ?
At this moment, you might be wondering if you're ready to take that leap back into the working world. And when I say "working world," I'm referring to the various realities that exist within it – being an entrepreneur, a business owner, a corporate worker, or even a retail manager. As a c-section mama myself, I intimately understand the unique challenges and emotions that come with this decision.
Embracing Your Scar and Rebuilding Confidence
It's common to experience a dip in confidence after a c-section, even years later. Your body has undergone a major transformation, both physically and emotionally, and it's okay to take the time you need to heal and adjust. But here's the thing: your scar does not define you. Embrace it as a symbol of your strength and the incredible journey you've been on.
I want you to ask yourself these three questions:
The question that evokes the most emotional response is likely the one that will catalyze the change you seek most. Trust your instincts and take inspired action.
Finding Your Voice and Speaking Your Truth
Whether you're feeling ready to return to your previous job, seek a promotion, or explore new opportunities, remember that your voice matters. It's okay to want more for yourself and your family. Start by getting clear on your goals and creating a plan to achieve them. Don't be afraid to lean on your support system – you don't have to do this alone.
Have you heard of SMART goals? Here's a brief introduction:
Creating a SMART goal can help you stay focused and motivated as you navigate this new chapter.
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Trusting Your Timeline and Honoring Your Needs
The thought of leaving your little one can be overwhelming, and separation anxiety is a real challenge for many mamas. But here's the truth: there's no one-size-fits-all timeline for returning to work or finally pursuing something you love. Trust your instincts and choose a path that feels right for you and your family.
If you're ready to start that business, take one small action today to move closer to your dream. If you're ready for that promotion, schedule a meeting with your supervisor to discuss your goals and aspirations. And if you're feeling called to step down until you feel like your best self again, honor that need without guilt or shame.
Remember, there is no one-size-fits-all solution. Take what resonates and leave the rest.
Embracing the Beauty and Challenges of Being a Working Mom
Being a mom is a beautiful honor, and it's perfectly compatible with having a fulfilling career. The key is to be present in each moment and give yourself grace as you navigate this new chapter.
When you're at work, focus on your passions and let your creativity shine. Allow yourself to be fully present, and notice how stress, rage, and sadness begin to dissipate. This heightened awareness will enable you to listen to your body more intuitively and recognize when you need to take a mental health day, clock out early, or make a change.
When you're with your child, savor the precious moments and let go of any guilt or self-doubt. Close the laptop, silence your business phone, and be fully engaged in the magic of motherhood. Your child will feel your presence and appreciate your undivided attention.
An Invitation to Join a Community of Supportive Mamas
If you're craving a safe space to share your journey and connect with other c-section mamas, I have an opportunity for you. I'm building a transformative community on another platform, and I'm seeking 20 mamas to experience it firsthand. All I ask in return is an honest testimonial about your experience. If this resonates with you, send me a message or leave a comment below.
Remember, mama: You've always held the key ??
With Endless Gratitude,
Cora H.