She is clothed in strength and dignity
Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre
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The woman is like a river, running restlessly to merge into the ocean. She wants to become the ocean. Be the ocean she wants to be one with. She is more precious than rubies. Her husband can trust her, and she will greatly enrich his life. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. She is like a merchant’s ship, bringing her food from afar.
She gets up before dawn to prepare breakfast for her household and plan the day’s work for her servant girls. She goes to inspect a field and buys it; with her earnings she plants a vineyard. She is energetic and strong, a hard worker. She makes sure her dealings are profitable; her lamp burns late into the night. Her hands are busy spinning thread, her fingers twisting fiber.
She extends a helping hand to the poor and opens her arms to the needy. She has no fear of winter for her household, for everyone has warm clothes. She makes her own bedspreads. She dresses in fine linen and purple gowns. Her husband is well known at the city gates, where he sits with the other civic leaders.
She makes belted linen garments and sashes to sell to the merchants. She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. When she speaks, her words are wise, and she gives instructions with kindness. She carefully watches everything in her household and suffers nothing from laziness.
Her children stand and bless her. Her husband praises her: “There are many virtuous and capable women in the world, but you surpass them all!” Her charm is deceptive, and beauty does not last; but a woman who fears the Lord will be greatly praised. Reward her for all she has done. Let her deeds publicly declare her praise.
The feminine and tender nature of a woman can flow freely when she is around supportive men, whether in the form of father, brother, husband or boyfriend. The woman is childlike by nature but circumstances make her exterior a bit hard. The woman respects the man who nurtures her inner child and only a mature man can understand this subtle psyche of woman. A mature man does not control the woman, he admires her playful nature ‘coz this is a hallmark of femininity. He lets her fly since he knows that she will come back to the nest no matter how high she flies. That’s the essence of a woman.
When a man cares a bit for a woman, he has insured a lifetime of love and care for himself. Women are governed by emotions, she thinks by heart not brain, but you guys don’t know the secret. She wears a facade of being overly strong, because you don’t reciprocate back to her love.
It is a hostile world and the woman is vulnerable, no matter what age she is (I know about India). People stare at her, and she detests it. A protective man is a like a blanket of warmth around her, a firewall she does not want to override. Only an independent man can be truly protective, one who is truly independent in his thinking and living. Respecting others’ is important but they should not influence you or manipulate you. Your relationship with your girl should come out of your independent thinking, not decided by your Mom’s opinions’ or friends’ bets. She is your treasure, keep it safe.
Sorry guys this one may be an off but girls talk a lot, they are chatter-boxes once they trust you. They want to confide in you every little thing that happened in the office or that they are passionate about. Listening to her with rapt attention will make her respect you. Your cellphones are at risk if you use them while she is describing her day to you. But if it gets too much ask her politely to stay quiet and she will follow you like a kitten. Talking to her and spending quality time with her tells her that you are available to her emotionally. Masculinity does not mean only toughness, it also means serenity and immense love and compassion. If you are still and peaceful, you will earn loads of respect from women. I mean mental stillness, don’t go by appearance of Gautam Buddha.
Share the responsibilities with your woman and you have a big room in her heart. I have always seen my dad bringing the kitchen stuff and grocery while my mom cooks food. Else they both go together and get the stuff. In a household, it is about the team of ‘WE’ and not only ‘ME’. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre# possessedbywritingspirit