She is always waiting …for YOU!

She’s confident enough and sure enough to wait.

If there is one good thing about the girl that waits for you is she’s sure of her own feelings. She’s so sure she knows they won’t change no matter how much time passes. So she lets you go on your way. There is something rare about that type of loyalty both to herself and you.

Anyone with patience has a deep understanding of things.

She understands things aren’t always that easy. And as much as she wants to solve those problems for you and help get the conclusions you need, she also knows there are some roads that need to be taken alone. Whatever happens, if it’s in her favor or not she’ll understand and accept it. Because more than wanting to be with you, she wants you happy.

She’s choosing you every time.

Even if you’re not choosing her or are confused about how you feel she’ll never stop picking you. She’ll never stop making you feel like you matter. She refuses to give up on you even in those times you’ve given up on yourself.

Not every girl will wait but she does.

She’s not waiting out of desperation or because no one is interested in her, she’s waiting because she sees something in you but more than that she sees the possibly in both of you together. She holds onto that blind faith even when she has no reason to.

She continues to forgive you.

When you play the, ‘I’m uncertain game,’ and mess with her feelings as you figure out your own, she doesn’t budge or hold it against you. She doesn’t for a second treat you the way you treat her because she’s sure of you and she’s sure of herself. She’s willing to forgive you for messing with her as long as there’s still that chance of you guys making it in the end.

Because she’s always been sure of you.

She’s never had to text you just to see if you answer. She’s never had to test you to test how she feels. She’s never changed plans or tried to ruin your night. She’s there. She’s always been there and you’d be a fool for not realizing there is value to that type of person who can deal with the BS a lot of people consider dating and courting and still love you.

She won’t pressure you or keep you on any leash.

If you guys do get it right she’ll never be the type to demand much or pressure you. She’s simply happy to have you in her life and with that, she’ll trust you the same way you can trust her.

Instead, she’ll value you.

She’ll count her blessings and show her appreciation even though it’s you that’s the lucky one.

And she probably loves you more than you know.

If she didn’t love she wouldn’t put up with your ……

But she can’t wait forever.

Even the most patient girls get tired of the games and confusion and wondering where is this going. And while you are fumbling through the confusion she’s going to walk away when she realizes you can’t give her what she needs. It’ll be only after that happens you begin to miss her.

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Thank you …People enter our lives only to later leave them. Some stay for years, others for decades, some for minutes and hours. And then, you have those very few who will stay with you for a lifetime.

Many of us are lucky enough to have friends who remain a part of our lives –

Then there are those of us with close friends who have been with us through thick and thin, friends who we often don’t even distinguish from family.

Yet, when it comes to lovers, we seem to value novelty and mystery over loyalty and dedication.

Sometimes, we fall in love with someone who has been in our lives for years. She may be an old friend. She may be an old lover or ex. Whoever she is, she’s a constant, caring presence in your life.

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She’s loved you for a long time.

She may not have always loved you romantically, but she is intrigued by the idea. Or maybe she’s always loved you with every bit of her being.

Maybe she fell in love with you and couldn’t get herself to stop loving you.

Maybe she tried over and over again, but was never able to find a man who would make her feel as good about herself as you used to make her feel.

This is the deepest of loves. If she’s loved you for years and years, and hasn’t been able to let go of you, it must be love.

When love stands the test of time, it grows and changes. It often loses its intensity, its naivety and becomes something more complete.

She will never leave or abandon you. You’ve become such a big part of her life – even if you two have spent years, worlds apart – that she will never lose the piece of you she carries with her.

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She understands you.

Most of the world is in disarray due to a lack of proficient communication skills.

People have lengthy conversations, debates even, every day without ever understanding one another.

Couples very rarely understand each other. And usually when they understand each other enough, they don’t like what they understand.

But not her. She’s known you and your ways for so long that she understands you, often much better than you understand yourself.

She sees the “you” that you either don’t wish to see or aren’t able to see. She sees all your flaws, all your weaknesses and all your beauty and strength. She sees you and understands you.

Most of you reading this aren’t yet able to understand what this level of understanding is – you’ve yet to experience it.

Believe me, you’ll know when you do. It’s the weirdest thing, but when you find someone who understands you at your deepest levels, you somehow understand her just the same.

Because she waited.

She’s lived her life, from the moment she fell for you, with you in mind. It’s not that she’s lived for you; she’s lived for herself.

Yet, she’s seen you in just about everything she’s done. Her present links back to her fondest memories, and it just so happens that in most of those memories, there you are.