Sharing feeling is not weakness

Sharing with the ones who understand you and who are there with you no matter what will definitely make you stronger you'll feel that there is supporting pillar by your side who is there to pick you up even if you fall.But if the concerned person is not understanding your condition instead mocking you for the same you'll feel low ,will start blaming yourself and what not and will end up in a worse situation. Therefore, always choose wisely the people with whom you are choosing to share emotions with this will rather decide the outcome whether you'll come out stronger or weaker!!

Imagine you are asked to share your feelings in open public forum and how would you respond? Sharing emotions can make you stronger if the person you share is of your faith and caring. Sharing with casual friend can however harm. Sharing of emotions have much greater value and is like sharing something very confidential in nature. Now you could understand to whom you should share your confidential secret not with every tom, dick and harry.

If the other is not tested and trusted you dilute the essence and that goes waste. Ramkrishna Paramahans uses to say go to mother Kali and weep in front of her with longing heart, she would then listen you. These words are good enough for using in worldly matter in emotional matters. If we share whom we trust with longing heart and sincerity we would make our heart lighter and also get the strength to cope the situation.

This works and improves our intelligence by enhancing the reasoning power hidden within that was clouded under the excessive emotions. However if you are sharing your emotional thoughts with anyone who is caring for you on your emotional side or supportive in a way to your emotional beliefs and emotional being then you are not weaker but stronger to be expressive and as an individual if you share your emotions with full courage it means you are emotionally too courageous and mentally you are perfectly above weak.

Some feel that sharing of your views makes you little vulnerable, however sharing of views is good in general. Sharing of joy increases. Whereas sharing of sorrow decreases. Share your problems with somebody you rely on and trust. You will get good advice and sympathy. In an emergency, it is just to share your difficulty with others. Many good and kind people are ready to help you. Do give them a chance to help you. Have a positive and optimistic approach towards life. Most of the people around you are good. It is evident from the fact that we meet so many good people daily with a very few exceptions. Keep company with positive minded people.

However, sharing with right person will definitely make you feel better. Find your mentor, find your companion. It is said that we often attract people who have same issues or problems as we have, only difference is they might have over come the same or in an initial stage which you have already crossed out. Understand who is actually listening to you and praying for you, bring your heart out in front of such people. Cheers!