SEX IN THE FORBIDDEN ZONE DESTROYED MY LIFE!

This is a email from November 2014 that Dr. Carol Munschauer (a psychologist in New York) sent me. She too had an affair with her therapist. She also mailed me the book "Sex in The Forbidden Zone" It was a good read. Everything she says her is "SPOT ON"

Here are my books that I wrote about my 2 year affair with my psychologist:

"Emails Of An Unethical Psychologist"

Link: https://www.amazon.com/Emails-Unethical-Psychologist-Sandra-Wyllie-ebook/dp/B0C7MXKNKN?ref_=ast_author_mpb

"Love Outside The Boundaries"

Link: https://www.amazon.com/Love-Outside-Boundaries-Sandra-Wyllie/dp/1724061461/ref=monarch_sidesheet

From: [email protected] Date: Fri, 14 Nov 2014 07:53:31 -0500

You may not be able to hear this , yet, but this is the soul murder your Boyfriend/ Therapist did to you. It was his job to keep the boundary. No matter what erotic feelings developed between you, it was HIS JOB AS CARETAKER not to indulge HIMSELF and HIS NEEDS but to TAKE CARE of YOU.

Maybe the intensity of your pain means you are starting to cross the Rubicon and see that the "loving thing" he had with you was really a despicable (although also human frailty) thing HE DID TO YOU. You went to this therapist for HELP with your PAIN. He turned his back on you by making you HIS LOVER. Yes it feels wondrous at first. For me for 25 years. The euphoria of the sexual affair with my therapist. But I had come to him because I NEEDED HELP. HELP from earlier issues, help in Finding out who I was. My own worth.

The sexual attraction for us both was intense but in ENACTING IT, he FAILED ME IN MY CRISIS. Out of his own human frailty, he "took for HIMSELF" though it felt for a long time like he was Giving to me, but it was HIS RESPONSIBILITY TO KEEP in his seat, keep the boundary and RESPOND TO YOU as a HEALER of your crises whatever they were in childhood, not scoop you up for his own delicious desert.

But , Sweetie, the person who FAILED YOU WAS THIS THERAPIST WHOM YOU ARE MOURNING. HE did a soul murder on you.???One that perhaps is similar, I don't know anything about your history, to how you might have been USED by your parents rather than "cherished"? as yourself.???Cherished as avery luscious appealing little girl who NEEDED care and protection and got exploitation.

?You are not in this position now, nor was I . I cried for years at ending with this therapist till I found out more of his history.???I was? far from his only patient sex affair.??My only regret is that I did not SUE HIM.

Yes, I said that .? Because really he ruined me. He screwed up all my later choices of men and?screwed my head. And of course did not "therapize" the very scars I had come to him for? to begin with.

?If you need me call. If you want the book give me your address.

WATCH MY VIDEO "Having Sex With My Narcissistic Psychologist Ruined My Life" LINK TO THIS: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qzHqnkypVVY

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