September issue -Simple lifesavers I learned from my dog
Tellu teaching me lessons in life

September issue -Simple lifesavers I learned from my dog

Our superior thinking ability and vivid imagination can also work against us by overcomplicating our thinking and our view of the world and our place in it. My loyal terrier friend has taught me lessons on how to live a happy life more clearly than any monk or stoic philosopher. So here are the lessons from late Tellu (and today from Lilli)


  1. Others' opinions about me do not determine who I am. Some might be frightened of me, some might dislike what I represent, some are curious about me and some love me. My starting point is that all people I meet are lovable and have a potential to love me. It is their choice, not mine.
  2. My positive attitude to myself and then to others is the only thing that matters. I cannot change others' perceptions of me, only my own.
  3. Everyday is an opportunity to meet new interesting people and learn something new. Even mundane everyday tasks can be an opportunity learn and improve. New people, new places and new experiences can teach me valuable lessons on coping with new elements in life.


Here are just some of the things I have learned, what are Your lessons? Sometimes we forget the basic ideas of good life due to our ability to overthink.

Patrik Johansson

Strategic Account Executive

5 个月

Bringing a positive attitude and energy into everything is a choice that carries me forward. My thoughts on Ilkka’s points Point 1: I hope that this would reach our younger generation who live very much on line and sometimes seem to miss this. Point 2: This brings to my mind also the stories when some people believe they can change other people or want to change how other people believe, feel, act, etc. Your life becomes so much easier when you realize that you are in control of only your self. Point 3: How true. This is great advice for us working at the leading edge of development, this approach also makes improvement management a lot easier.?

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Thank you, Ilkka once again. About point 3: this is very important. With age, we of course learn habits, some good, some maybe not. That is kind of a trend for the individual. Therefore, one has to consciously look for learning something new or meeting new people. I don't think "new" needs to be anything major at all. Last week, I took a shortcut in my usual walk, using a path I had never used previously. That's enough for "new". By the way, I keep a diary, every day I document what new was there today.

I learned similar lessons from our dearly beloved family dog, but she passed away at the mature age on 11 this spring, and I’ve struggled to keep them in mind in her absence. Thanks for the reminder. Enjoy every day with your philosopher!

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