Sentinel Beyond Love: Ensuring Protection and Security Everywhere, Every Time

Expat spouses' financial dependency often occurs when spouses who relocate to another country for their partner's job (expatriates or expats) face some of the common economic challenges due to their dependence on their partner's income, as in many countries spouse may not be legally allowed to work, may face barriers such as language or cultural differences that hinder their ability to find suitable employment. The instability (frequent mobility) of many international assignments adds another layer of complexity to this situation, as they may have no way to find continuity in their careers if they choose to follow their partners.

Empowering Expat Spouses

Financial dependency among expat spouses can lead to various issues, including feelings of isolation, loss of financial independence, and strained relationships. To the point of being the only reason preventing the couple from divorce. It also impacts their ability to contribute to household finances and save for their future (retirement, health insurance, etc.).

Addressing the financial dependency of expatriate spouses demands a comprehensive strategy that tackles various barriers. In addition to offering tailored job placement assistance, language classes, and networking opportunities, crucial reforms are needed in multiple areas. These include dismantling barriers in banking systems, removing immunity restrictions against diplomats in courts, and ensuring accessibility to the same level of legal protection and representation for spouses in marriages where there is financial dependency. Moreover, eliminating restrictions on accessing information from abroad and legalizing the obligation of transparency for spouses are vital steps toward economic empowerment.

Furthermore, ensuring the continuity of social networks and providing mental health support are fundamental resources for any family relocating abroad. These aspects require urgent attention and strategic reformulation to guarantee the economic stability and overall well-being of expatriate families.

Love across borders

In addition to addressing the structural and systemic challenges faced by expatriate spouses, we need to ensure love transcends borders and sustains through the trials of expatriation.

Expatriation isn't merely about traveling; it's a profound commitment that reshapes individuals and relationships. Similarly, marriage transcends the romanticized notion of a carefree summer fling; it's a complex bond that requires resilience and mutual understanding. Both expatriation and marriage demand profound commitments, impacting individuals both individually and collectively.

Many couples face challenges when they realize the seriousness of their commitments, like moving in together, buying a home, or having a family. Being away from home as expatriates or on long trips can also strain relationships, even strong ones. To overcome these challenges, trust and understanding between partners are crucial. It's important to know each other's limits, strengths, and needs.

Pre departure therapy and care

Navigating these challenges with an open mind to self-discovery and a willingness to embrace the ever-evolving nature of our partners is essential not only for surviving expatriation but also for thriving in any relationship.

Establishing an atmosphere of self-reflection, open dialogue, and mutual assistance empowers couples to strengthen their bond. This facilitates candid discussions about delicate matters such as financial dependency and legal vulnerabilities arising from their relationship well in advance of any issues.

Consequently, they can make necessary adjustments to their agreements and contracts from a foundation of love and support, proactively addressing potential challenges.

Karina Lagarrigue

www.expatworldpsychologist.com