Send the Elevator Back Down

Our success isn’t just our own. It’s a culmination of dedication, happenstance, hard work, loving support, sometimes a little luck, and opportunity.

I recall a conversation I had years ago with a colleague about “sending the elevator back down.” Meaning, that each of us has a responsibility to share our success with others. As we achieve successful new heights, reach down and lend a hand to help others rise with you.

I remember a Spring day when I learned that Augie Ray had recommended me as a guest speaker for Dr. Daradirek (Gee) Ekachai’s social media course at Marquette University. I knew of Augie through professional and social circles. But I had no idea that he knew me, let alone would recommend me as a speaker.

After joining Gee’s class on multiple occasions she offered me an opportunity to become an adjunct instructor and take over her class on Emerging and Social Media. I was blown away by the opportunity. Fueled by caffeine the extra long days or weekends grading assignments became one of the most rewarding opportunities I’ve had.

Every semester I met new students that were eager to learn and share their perspectives with me. Giving me so much more than I could have every given them.

Remembering that very first speaking opportunity I returned the favor by having many colleagues and co-workers that I admired and respected speak to my class. I even incorporated opportunities for real local businesses to join the course. From small startups to established businesses, students developed social strategies for each company and in return they had an opportunity to make even more connections in the community.

One of my favorite moments was when I asked Abi Gilman, a colleague at Laughlin Constable, to help me with the course. At first we taught opposite semesters. But if I am being honest, my favorite times were when we taught the course together.

Augie recommended me as a speaker. Gee offered more speaking opportunities and her class to me. And I shared those same speaking opportunities with others. Eventually having Abi share the course with me.

In each instance others gave up something valuable and shared it with someone else. It’s not always easy to give up something you value or own. But I can definitively say that sharing those opportunities always felt rewards.

I’ve been very lucky to have a loving family, supportive mentors, and patient co-workers that have helped me achieve success. So I encourage you to find a way to give back, pay it forward, or send the elevator back down.

It may start with a simple gesture. Partner with a local college or group like United Adworkers to review student resumes or portfolios. Take a moment to have coffee with someone looking to start or change their career. Mentor a young colleague. Share your speaking opportunities with colleagues. Listen to the new business pitch from a startup – you may not buy, but you may help them sell.

Enjoy the personal reward of supporting others and helping them reach their goals. The kindness you share today could make a world of difference to someone else.

How have you helped others? I’d love to hear your stories and suggestions in the comments below.

Originally posted as part of my #Januwordy series at https://www.jenders.com/2019/01/01/send-the-elevator-back-down/