SELF DOUBT:
Erica M Haines
Leadership & Wellness Consultant | Conflict Resolution & Performance Enhancement
I've been thinking a lot lately about Surrender & Resistance, Emotional Healing, Clearing and Coping.
For me SELF DOUBT is my go-to RESISTANCE.
There's the you of your Ultimate Dreams, and then there's giving in to your lowest self your most base desires.
Between the two is RESISTANCE. (Steven Pressfield)
I'm starting to Realize that Resistance is just another area where we Avoid Feelings, but Resistance is Trickier than that.
Resistance is the Shadow that pops up as soon as the Tree Breaks Soil - (also Steven Pressfield)
Resistance Towards Conquering your Fears, overcoming Self-Doubt, Feeling the Feelings of: Imposter Syndrome, Ineptitude, Inadequacy, that are all part of the human condition,
Is Trickier.
Possibly because it's more Isolating. We Personalize it. It isn't as openly discussed, and accepted as feelings of hurt from Relationships, or Anger, or Shame.
Self-Doubt for Me is a context over content issue...
I'll have my agenda, start to take action and then suddenly I find myself questioning the whole Context - the Purpose -sometimes even Life itself.
Plummeting my Actionable Steps into swirling Irrelevance.
If I don't catch it - and see it for what It Is (context), if I get Engaged with it (content), I will buy into It.
Machinate & Ruminate -ultimately paralyzed of progress.
If you have Very Powerful Goals, you have VERY Powerful Resistance. If you are Meant to do something, called to do something - On some level it Scares you to Death.
That fact, in and of itself, makes it all the more ESSENTIAL that we learn how to Recognize, Overcome and Face RESISTANCE.
Connect with me if you're interested in my coaching to help you:
Conquer Resistance,
Amplify Intention,
Enhance Adherence,
Increase Goal Accountability & More!
You can call my hotline ? 929-437-4227 ? or just send me a direct message!