Self-Development: How To Rise Back From Your Rock Bottom.
You can be a role mode for millions, and there’s still going to be periods when you drop lower than your own expectations in life.
From my own experience, I’ve figured out that this learning process never ends, and so does the falling — not today, not tomorrow, never.
And I feel that it really is normal to find yourself in a difficult situation due to your own self, it is just fine! The day you achieve that level of spiritual correctness consider yourself to have been enlightened.
You may have built a strong foundation at any point and in any aspect of your life, all it’s going to take is one wrong choice worth 5 seconds to destroy what you built, that’s all the time you must choose between right and wrong.
You might as well wonder that it was all just a dream, and the after-effects of your wrongdoing may haunt you for quite a while after the collapse.
The point that I’m trying to make today is, that when you do land up in a dark room all by yourself, instead of wasting your time playing with your thoughts, you must wear your boxing gloves and take the situation head on, prepare for your longer version of success!
As I speak from the darkest of my rooms, I still look up to my role models, and visualize how they would tackle the situation if they were in my place. I know in my head & heart that no matter what happens, it’s all going to be fine one fine day, I was programmed like that by my parents. This time isn’t going to last, nor is any other time, that’s the nature of time — it is never going to last, period.
So that said, there’s a big enough reason to make the most out of every period in your life, the good ones, and the bad ones.
Your time should be directly proportional to your growth. As time flows, you should grow. As time changes, you should change. Getting your act together with time is imperative to make the most out of your time.
It breaks my heart when I see people are not able to get back up in their lives, having reached their rock bottoms altogether. I want to extend my hand to all those people and tell them today that guys, your heart is beating, hands/legs moving, you can see, get to speak and even listen.
Didn’t you know that there are people who don’t even have these basic privileges by God’s will? Don’t they fight back? Don’t they man up for their life and take charge of their situations? Don’t they make a living?
“I don’t care what shit you get yourself into, I don’t care if you had the worst past in the world.”
The reality is, and that’s the hard-core reality, that NOBODY GIVES A SHIT. Not your girlfriend, not your best friend, and not your aunt-next-door who seems to be giving all the shit in the world about what you’re doing in life.
The only people who give a shit are your family — they’re the ones you need to satisfy, they should be the ones you look up to and when in doubt, they SHOULD be the ones you confide in.
If you don’t COMMUNICATE much with your family or close ones, this lack of communication can even cause you serious harm socially, financially, legally, medically as well as spiritually.
From all the experiences that I’ve had of falling, I suggest that you immediately change these 3 things in your life when you have fallen badly in life. They are your only hope to stand tall when the wind is blowing against you!
People, places & things — In order to reach your full potential and stay passionate about your goals, you need to be very careful about the people, places and things that you choose to stay in.
So if something went drastically wrong in your life, then chances are that either the people whom you interact with most, or the places where you spend the most time, or the things that you mostly do, are accounting for all the self-harm that you’re responsible for.
“The best time to take charge of your life is now.”
When you take massive action, you’ll start gaining more control over your life, as you’ve finally decided to sit in the driver’s seat. Now, try to identify the root cause for all your failures.
Is there some habit that has been a part of your personality for ages, and maybe it’s time to dispose it off now? What kind of people do you spend most of your time with? Is your environment supporting your ultimate goals? What are the things that don’t support your long-term vision? Ask such questions to yourself when in serious doubt in life.