Self-Decision - Face It

Have you ever thought of this - Are we making any decisions or taking any action in our life as we want to do so? Do we really look for things which make us happy? Are we ready to take risks in our life? Are we fully independent?

In my sense, NO!!

We are definitely making decisions, taking action, doing things, taking risks, feeling independent but not consciously, it is an influential choice that we make on a daily basis, knowingly or unknowingly. There is so much pressure, competition around us that we tend to forget what is actually making us happy.

Let's assume: There is a girl who is an average student or maybe less than average. After 10th board, she wanted to opt Arts and go for Hotel Management as she is very keen towards food, cooking, ingredients, spices and all. However, due to parents pressure she had to opt Science which is not her cup of tea. Her father wants her to be a Doctor.

Just think of the case and also imagine the pressure on that girl. In this case, is she enjoying what she is doing or will do? Is she happy or under burden? It is correct that parents have the right to make decisions in their children's life but it should be a mutual one not forceful.

We need to look at things from all perspectives rather than only society point of view. If a person is happy working on something they automatically get ready to face everything which comes along with that. To conclude, try to find your happiness in this world. Otherwise life will be the result of other's opinions and there will always be a "Blame Game".

Begin your journey of Self - decision - It takes courage to learn and implement in Life.