Self Confidence

Self confidence comes from the "lack of neglect", not neglecting the small daily disciplines.

Self confidence comes from feeling good about yourself and one of the best ways to feel good is "at the end of the day to know that you poured it on, so you did your best"

There are mainly 3 characteristics that can arise our self confidence:

1-Appearance.

2- Mental and Behavioral.

3-Communication and skills.

Appearance:

Dress nicely:

If you dress nicely, you will feel good about yourself and very presentable, it doesn't mean wearing an expensive clothes, but wearing something could suit your character and nicely looking, this will give you a good mood and let you tackle the world.

Physical appearance:

Always develop a habit of physical exercising regularly,not necessarily going to gym, be always in a good shape/fit, this gives a boost of self esteem and self confidence.

I have always a thought in my mind "The way you look to yourself, people will look likewise", so always imagine the best out of you and work on it.

Mental and Behavioral:

Think and act positively:

Always look into the positive side from any situation wherever you face, this will put you in your power position where you begin to look into results and not reasons.

Being positive would pull you through all kind of challenges and difficulties.

If you don't program your mind by this, it's easy to get swallowed by a bad day, it's to be annihilated by a poor month, and it's easy sometimes to be disappeared beneath the waves a bad year.

Know your principles:

Live your life with your own principles and philosophies, become a person of high values, a person of principles, a person of honesty, a person who earns respect, a person of integrity.

Those kind of people who have principles and philosophies in life have unbeatable self confidence.

Communication and skills:

Develop your communication ways:

Always work on your communication skills, always develop it in an consistent substance.

Think about the image that you need to appear with to the whole world, they way you talk, the way you think, the way listen and the way you act.

I loved what les brown said, he said "Develop always your communication skills because once you open your mouth, you tell the world who you are"

Learn a new skills out of your zone:

Be unstoppable learning machine, this will position you in a consistent challenging mood and compete with yourself to be the best out of you, never be saturated with what you have.

The most interesting thing, when you learn something out of your comfort zone, this would widen your cognitive capacity around you and will boost your self confidence.

what keeps me always in track of learning is my own life philosophy:

I learn to teach , I teach to change others, I change to make a difference in others lives.

Volunteer:

Find the time to volunteer for a good cause, to spread some holiday cheer, to make the lives of others better.

It’ll be some of the best time you’ve ever spent, and an amazing side benefit is that you’ll feel better about yourself and seeing the effect on others instantly.

You Do Make a Difference