SELECT YOUR's from TWO very different approaches on dealing with difficult people

I am sure you must have encountered difficult people on day to day basis and sometimes many of us may even lose our patience. BUT NO MORE !!!

Here are two very different approaches and believe me these 27.42 minutes of videos (15.06 + 12.36) are worth for every single second of your $ PRECIOUS TIME $ :

1. Accepting the problem + Understanding the Issue + Resolving the problem !!
2. Accepting the Issue but Not giving a Fuck !!

Though above approaches does not complement each other but based on your on pesonality and thinking bias you can use either the first approach, the second approach or you can use them one after other.

This is the first approach which focuses on resolving the issue using a behavioural techniques called the Four quardrant tool.

Here's the second approach, which seems to be very fast and easy, however it is much more difficult then it seems, even difficult then the first approach. It is based on the concept that we have heared several times : we have limited enery, time and money and hence should not waste them on unproductive and toxic people. The below video will also help you develop your Fuck budget and we should give Fuck only to budgeted activites rather than wasting our fuck on unhealty activities. (my language here seems to be funny, but this is the way the author of orginal content has presented the concept)

If you fell that one of the above approach is correct and the other is not (Then you are wrong!!) Both of the above approaches are the best and should be used one after other, if the preceding approach fails, considering the environment and situations around.

However I leave the most disputed question on you, which one to use FIRST

“You don’t have to attend every argument you are invited to.”