Secrets of Cheerfulness

Wondrous is the strength of cheerfulness, and its power of endurance - the cheerful man will do more in the same time, will do it; better, will preserve it longer, than the sad or sullen.

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Sadness is like darkness. Happiness is light. Everybody in this world wants to move towards light. Ultimate objective of all the happenings in this world is happiness. Working hard day and night, earning a dollar or billions, writing books, reading books, singing songs, dancing, just simply sitting without work for years- in all these activities a person finds happiness what he wants or enjoys what he desires. But there is no measurement of real happiness.

Many greats and philosophers have given different definitions to happiness. Many dedicate their lives to the offices they work and feel happiness. Always feeling that I am not O.K. You are O.K. type of thinking is killing and will not allow people to understand what happiness is and running after temporary pleasures. People with more than fifty years of age are working happily and those who are in their thirties are suffering from back pain and acidity due to unwanted worries and lack of enthusiasm towards life. If you take life casually, life also will be visible to you in a more casual manner. You have to inject life with new thoughts and ideas which would rejuvenate your mind, body and soul.

The following are some of the secrets of cheerfulness which you may try:

i, Have a goal in your life by the time you complete your schooling, for which you are passionate to become something in life. You must have a do or die attitude towards your goal to get amazing results.

ii Find out a Mentor or a person whom you admire in your and follow his advise diligently to create great personal and professional life.

iii. Do not judge others on daily basis, if you want to be happy. Life of every human being is different from others, as their family background is different. Their way of thinking, levels of thinking and behavioral patterns are different. Naturally their definitions of happiness also differ from each other. Your definitions and choice of happiness and success is more important than anybody else. Follow this without fail.

iv. Have contentment in life, definitely not about your achievements. Pinnacle of happiness lies in achieving what you want in your own way. This will keep you cheerful for a life time.

v. Either within the four walls or in the public, never give your opinion or comment on others in an abusive manner, which will reflect the dark side of your attitude.

vi. Always greet others with cheerful composure and unnecessary and unwarranted frowning in public will put off people from talking to you.

vii. Happiness is a decision. Success is a journey. Cheerful decision will make you happy and successful.

viii. If you want to be happy in your personal life keep your family happy and try to give them all what they want.

ix. If you want to be happy in your office, keep your boss and colleagues happy with your knowledge, skills, attitude and abilities.

x. If you follow these tips, cheerfulness will emboss itself on your face without any doubt.

Finally, a cheerful attitude will open new opportunities to excel in your personal and professional life. People love to work and network with you.?