The Secret To Your Unstoppable Success
Julie Menden
Speaker & High Performance Coach | CEO & Founder | Helping Executives & Business Leaders Reach Their Peak Performance
What's the secret?
Sometimes we look to mentors, to people really successful in a space we want to be in, to people who are doing and achieving things we really want ourselves, and we ask ourselves:
What's their secret?
Is it that they have the right degree? Is it because they have multiple certifications? A certain number of years of experience? They are just wired differently to have all the creative ideas? They have the right connections?
Sure all those things are important and certainly some aspects most likely contributed to helping them achieve those levels of success.
But, some people have those external things and STILL are not achieving what they desire. They still are missing their goals, feeling self-doubt, feeling burned out, unfulfilled in their work.
So, what's the secret? What's the difference between those that seem to continue to achieve their goals? Who seem to find success in whatever they take on? Who seem to LOVE what they are doing? Who have this joy and energy about themselves and their work?
It's their Self-Leadership.
According to Bryant & Kazan 2012, self-leadership is: "the practice of intentionally influencing your thinking, feeling, and actions towards your objective/s".
You notice how in that description it's not:
No. It's intentionally influencing your "thinking, feeling, and action towards your objective/s".
The secret to your UNSTOPPABLE SUCCESS is being intentional about your thoughts
>>>What you say to yourself.
>>>What you think about yourself and your abilities.
>>>How you think you can handle challenges.
>>>What you think you are capable of.
Your THOUGHTS are setting the whole domino effect that are creating the action towards your goals.
Want to change the results you're getting? Start by examining the thoughts that are creating your results.
Your thoughts, create your feelings/emotions, which create the action you are willing to take which create....YOUR RESULTS.
When you encounter a challenge; do you focus on the problem or do you see the opportunities?
When you experience stress; do you push through until the point of burnout, or do you reflect on what needs to change.
When you get a really big, scary idea/goal; do you convince yourself you can't do that, or do you figure out how you will do it.
Self Leadership Qualities:
While there are certainly other qualities of Self Leadership, I would challenge you to assess how you are doing on some of these core things currently?
Notice that they are all things within YOUR control. You have the ability to create the success you desire by starting with being more intentional in your thoughts and actions.
Self-Leaders are able to consciously, and intentionally create the results they want by focusing on the process it takes to get there.
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Julie Menden is a Leadership & Performance Coach who helps emerging leaders ditch the self-doubt and step into their confidence to drive results, and achieve joy and fulfillment along the way.
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Excellent article Julie - so timely and relevant for everyone getting off to a strong start in 2022. Awesome reminder to focus on the things we can control. I truly appreciate your JOY and ENERGY for your work. Look forward to re-connecting again sometime in the near future!