The Secret To Successful Rainmaking
Heather Moulder
Helping lawyers build without burnout, go from stress to success ◆ Lawyer Leadership & Business Coach ◆ Former Big Law Partner ◆ Life & Law Podcast Host
Motivated.
Gung-ho.
Ready to get started.
But then life happens. The thing you intended to get done goes by the wayside. And you even (gasp!) procrastinate doing that thing.
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This happens all the time.
It’s why so few people who set goals actually achieve them. And why so few attorneys are rainmakers.
What separates the rainmakers from the non-rainmakers isn’t what you think.
It’s not about personality. It’s not about who they know. It’s also not about knowing more (or being “natural” at it).
Because...
So, what makes the difference?
Rainmakers prioritize rainmaking activities.
Not what you wanted to hear, was it?
Rainmakers are consistent, persistent and patient.
They do NOT:
And they don't immediately write off a potential client just because they said "no" to sending a new deal/project their way.
So, how to deal with the (very real) issue of being slammed and not having a lot of time? And what can you do when your brain starts spinning with all the reasons why you shouldn't bother or should just give up?
A couple of quick notes...
But that doesn't mean you can’t do something about it.
It’s time to support yourself.
What should that support look like? It depends on where the breakdown is occurring and why.
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Here’s where I recommend getting started:
#1: Build The Right Mindset
A strong, growth-oriented mindset is what:
And note: no one is born this way. This mindset takes practice and work (you cultivate it through use of proven tools like my Legal Mindset Mastery Toolkit ).
This is your starting point because it builds the foundation for what must come next…
#2: Get help.
Delegate all that can be delegated - whether to administrative or marketing staff (or even other lawyers).
Then, get outside help where needed. This will depend on your firm, practice and the type of growth you’re looking for but could include one or more of the following:
Do not shy away from getting help. Because you can't do it all (nor do you truly want to - it's overwhelming and exhausting).
#3: Create appropriate systems/processes.
Systems are what help with delegation efforts by ensuring:
This is key for proper collaboration. And note: I have an entire podcast around this topic (go here to listen ).
To sum up…
Don't beat yourself up for being human and life getting busy.
Do take time to support yourself. So that you can get the things you want to get done - you know - done.
You do not need to do everything yourself. And you aren't built to go solo (no human being is, no matter how high-achieving).
Get the support you need. It's the smart - and necessary - thing for achieving all the things you want.
XO,
Heather
P.S. Ready for customized support from an expert to help you build your ideal legal practice around the lifestyle you actually want? Here's how I can help .
The legal industry’s life coach. | I help attorneys who are over the overwhelm live lives with less stress + far more fulfillment. | Host of The Less Stressed Lawyer Podcast.
8 个月Interesting Heather Moulder. Give us the cliff notes. What's it about instead?
??Heather…although a difficult conversation. it’s the doing. favorite book strategy and the fat smoker: doing what’s obvious but not easy.
?? Helping black lawyers progress, all the way to the top ?? Author of “Be The First: People of Colour Imposter Syndrome and the Struggle to Succeed in a White World” ?? International Keynote Speaker ??? Podcast host
8 个月"Rainmakers are consistent, persistent and patient." Brilliant article debunking the myths about what it takes to be a rainmaker. So good. And "don't beat yourself up for being human" is a rule for life!
I Help Lawyers Capture and Count More of Their Billable Time Every Day - In a Stress-Free Way
9 个月"You aren't built to go solo"!! OOHHHH so good for so many attorneys to hear this! (me included) ?? I love the 3 steps you offer in this newsletter too...Your help is is so appreciated!
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9 个月Agree ??! Consistency carries the day!