IN SEARCH Of A LIFE PARTNER

If you are ready for love, one of the best things you can do is get lost in day-dreaming about your perfect mate. As you imagine your ideal partner, the universe receives these images as indicators of what to create in your life. In your imagination, you can create and improve on your desired relationship until it meets your highest ideal.

A soul mate is a person who you connect to without even needing to speak. A soulmate will help you grow even if it means losing you. A soul mate shares in kindness and non-judgment, but they are one of the few people we will trust with judgment.

Your chemistry is what makes or breaks two people as being soulmates. To use an analogy, a relationship requires connection and current to work. Like a fuse, each type of chemistry carries 10 amps of the relationship load. So Body, Mind, and Spirit altogether carry 30 amps of relationship load. An average relation runs on 8 to 16 amps of current.

Once you have that ideal image in your mind, replay it over and over, until one day you will find yourself actually living it. The power of your imagination is unstoppable and can transform your love life.

The number one reason the law of attraction doesn't appear to work is that people give up before their wish is granted. It's like ordering a delicious meal and walking out of the diner before your order arrives. The order is on its way, but if you are no longer in alignment with it, you will miss out.

When it comes to love, people get disappointed when their dates don't meet their expectations and they don't see evidence that true love is coming. Out of disappointment or fear of being disappointed, they give up, never knowing what they missed.The key to the law of attraction is that once you are clear you desire something specific, you must commit to it for as long as it takes to manifest in your life.

Each "failed" relationship has given you clues about what you want in your ideal partner. The problem is, many women and men focus on the negative instead of the positive. For example, by saying that you don't want a man who "puts his work before the relationship," you are focusing on a man who puts work before love and that is the desire you are unconsciously sending out through your energy.

The good news is, if you know what you don't want, you know what you do want. Your power to create lies in your ability to choose thoughts that are positively clear so that you can tell the universe exactly what you desire. ("I want a man who puts me first and loves me unconditionally.")

You can tell if your affirmation is positive or negative by the way it makes you feel. If it makes you feel great, it is positive. If it makes you feel bad, it is negative. It's that simple. If you find yourself thinking negative thoughts, simply turn them around and start focusing on the positive. You will immediately feel better and you will be in alignment with love.

You can't expect someone else to fall in love with you if you are not in love with yourself.When we judge or criticize ourselves, we send out an energy that repels others. Self-criticism is a negative energy that will repel potential mates.

On the other hand, self-love is attractive and attractive potantial mates.. Make a list of ten characteristics you love about yourself and put this list where you can see it every day. It doesn't really matter what is on the list as long as it easily generates good feelings that you have toward yourself.

The more you focus on what you love about yourself, the more self-love you will experience. Others will fall in love with you, too, simply because it feels great to be around people who love themselves.

It's natural to feel jealous when we see someone experiencing something we desire and don't have, but jealousy will actually keep love from coming to you . Jealousy is a negative emotion and will repel what you desire.

Instead of feeling jealous, understand if you are seeing someone else living your dream, your dream is getting closer. So instead of being jealous, celebrate the love you see and bless all the loving relationships you witness. In this way, you are telling the universe to bring you some of that.

We live in an obliging universe where it is possible to experience all our dreams and desires. One of the biggest obstacles in manifesting what we desire is doubt. We want something, but we doubt that it's possible. It is actually the doubt that keeps it from coming.

Knowing is a positve energy and opens the door for attraction. Doubt is a negative energy and closes that same door. When you are in alignment with attracting your perfect mate, there is a sense of knowing he/she is on their way.

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Thank you …Don't wait for love to find you in order to start living. You will attract what you are: if you are a couch potato, you will attract a coach potato. If you desire a mate who is active, goes skiing and likes to read, you better start jogging, getting on the slopes and hanging out in Barnes & Noble.

Don't wait for him to arrive in order to live your best life. Start living your best life right now and you will become super-attractive so that special person will be able to spot you in a crowd.

There is a current "single you," and a future partnered or married you. One of the best ways to use the law of attraction to attract your perfect guy is to become the person who is already in the relationship..

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