Scoring in Love: A Dating Game Plan Inspired by Ice Hockey

For those who've been following my personal journey, you're aware of the deep roots my husband’s family has in Chicago, and our passion for ice hockey has seamlessly transitioned to Dallas, where our son, Rohan, proudly plays for the Dallas Stars Metro Youth League. Recently, Rohan scored a hat trick, earning him the privilege of choosing the dinner spot for the night. As I basked in the excitement of his achievement, my mind naturally drew parallels between the strategies in sports, particularly hockey, and the dynamics of dating in the South Asian community.

The Sports Analogy: In a recent game, the announcer highlighted a remarkable statistic about our team: we started with ten times the number of shots on goal as the opposing team. In sports, the number of shots on goal represents the strategic gameplay demonstrated by the entire team. It reflects the effort, planning, and execution required to reach the goal line and, ultimately, score. This got me thinking about how this concept mirrors the dating world, where the equivalent of shots on goal is akin to going on first dates.

Dating Strategies: Just as in hockey, where the number of shots taken symbolizes the team's strategic efforts, the number of dates you go on is determined by your proactive approach – swiping right, responding to biodatas, or attending mixers. This strategic planning positions you to meet new people and, metaphorically, take your shot. Without this initial effort, you won't find yourself in a position to score a goal or, in dating terms, establish a long-term relationship.

Taking the Shot: Imagine setting up all your strategies, being present in exciting places to meet people, and getting promising matches on dating apps, but they don't convert into first dates. This is where the analogy deepens. Ladies, there's no need to wait for the other person to make the first move – don't miss the opportunity! Taking the shot, initiating the conversation, and actively participating in the dating game are crucial steps.

Reaching the Goal: Getting a point & winning is the goal of a sports game, the ultimate goal in the dating game is finding the right person and entering a fulfilling relationship. To achieve this, it's essential to evaluate your strategies, understand what you want, and plan accordingly. It all begins with taking that initial step and making sure you're shooting all your shots.

Cuffing Season and Beyond: As football season winds down and hockey season gains momentum, I encourage you not to let cuffing season dictate the end of your dating endeavors. Winter, often overlooked, is an opportune time to slide into DMs and make connections. While others might be caught up in the winter doldrums, seize the moment to stand out and continue taking your shots.

In the game of love, drawing inspiration from the world of sports can provide valuable insights. Whether on the ice or in the realm of dating, strategic planning, active participation, and taking those shots are fundamental to achieving success. So, as the winter season unfolds, remember that it might just be the perfect time to score big in love!