The Science of Happiness: How to Hack Your Brain & Become A Happier Person

The Science of Happiness: How to Hack Your Brain & Become A Happier Person

My boss was yelling. And my brain responded on its own. (I gave no permission). But it happened anyway.

Cortisol took over my brain. (The stress hormone. It’s worse than negative thinking.) So when the boss yells at me, I feel like crying or running out of the building.

And I’m not the only one who’s suffered from this.

Loretta Breuning is a doctor (!) who used to work on Wall Street. And when her boss yelled, she cried. “It wasn’t even something big,” she said. But she cried anyway. She couldn’t help it. Cortisol was controlling her.

And that’s the scary part… when our chemicals take over our motive.

So I asked Loretta, “What can I do to get my dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin back up to par OR even better?”

“You have to make a decision,” she said. You have to ask, “Am I going to try to rewire myself?”

And if the answer is yes, then she has the steps. It starts with “personal agency.” (Which I kept calling “positive agency because it correlated in my almost alzheimer-ithmic brain).

“Pair your negativity with personal agency and realistic expectations,” she said.

“Okay, what does that mean?”

Then she gave me action. And explained an exercise from her book, “The Science of Positivity: Stop Negative Thought Patterns by Changing Your Brain Chemistry”

ACTION: 3 times a day, stop and look for something good in your life

Do this 3 times a day (to create the habit) for 6 weeks. If you mess up, start over. Create the habit of creating positive habits.

Then you’ll reduce stress.

And soothe your inner mammal.

----

Thanks so much for listening! If you like this episode, please subscribe to “The James Altucher Show” and rate and review!

Follow me on Social Media:

Naya Yéléna BAMBA

Supply Chain management , certified Prince 2 and Green Belt

6 年

I think i need to try it too cause i hate that bad feeling

回复
Niko Plaitakis

content + creative + tech

6 年

meditation helps us control our monkey minds so that we are much more able to deal with adversity. if we just take 5 minutes a day to consider how fortunate we really are - regardless of ‘low’ we may feel at particular moment - we will definitely see a change in our attitude. through Buddhist teachings we can even learn why we all react in certain ways. https://kadampa.org/2016/09/new-book-transform-life-available-october-2016

Jason Efthim

Commercial Construction Project Engineer

6 年
回复
Laura S.

Experienced Adult Educator | Psychologist | Writer | Coach

6 年

I started the "find things I am thankful for" last year... then I got busy and forgot about it. Adding it to my phone reminders now. Thank you!

Blake Morgan

Customer Experience Futurist, Bestselling Author, Keynote Speaker

6 年

On your podcast I liked her comments about what she did in her own life. Being more open to accidents - loosening the grip on control - and seeing what the universe manifests. Similar to how your guest Tiffany Hadish lives her life - how she gets on the stage and reads the room every time.

要查看或添加评论,请登录

社区洞察

其他会员也浏览了