???????? ???????? ???????? ?????? ???????? ?????????????? - ???????? ????!
Sanjay Wadhwa
Become a Certified Business Coach | Turn Your Passion Into a Profitable Career | Quit Your Job | Work Less, Earn More & Make a Difference Worldwide
???????? ???????? ???????? ?????? ???????? ?????????????? - ???????? ????!
Yesterday was a monumental day. We started our office yesterday. That's not what made the day monumental.
At office, all of us started to create a vision for our business. We started to look at what is that we will now accomplish and how will we take off from here. We definitely had some difficult and awkward moments as were contemplating the future and how will we forge our new direction. Even that's not something that made the day monumental.
What made it monumental was that late last evening we were on a coaching call with my Ultimate Business Growth System Clients. On the coaching call, we all confronted our biggest fear.
We all distinguished that despite the Fear there was work to be done. As my brave clients started sharing, for me the fear was so palpable. It was as if I can actually reach out through the screen and touch it. Before I tell you what made the discussion monumental, let me tell you the 5 Fears that all of us face and how this fear stops us from truly living our full potential.
??. ???????? ???? ?????? ??????????????: I don't know what's going to happen if what I wish for comes true. Not sure how life will shape up! What would I need to do. Where will this future take me.
???????????????? ?? ???????????? ???? ?????????????? ?????? ???????????? ???????? ????????. ???????????????????????? ?????? ?????? ???????????? ???????? ???????? ????????.
??. ???????? ???? ????????????????????: This one is huge. I don't have what it takes to make it big. To live the ideal life. To fulfil my destiny. The irony is that this fear manifests to stop you from truly shining through.
???????????????????????? ???????????????? ???? ???????? ????????????. ???? ???????? ?????????????????? ?????? ???? ?????? ???????? ?????????????? ???????????????????? ?????? ?????? - ???????? ?????????????????????? ???????????? ???????? ?????? ?????? ???? ?????? ?????? ???????? ???????? ???????? ??????.
??. ???????? ???? ?????????? ????????????: What will people say? This one has been there for humans from time immemorial. Ultimately, we have constituted ourselves as a society. You want everyone's acceptance. It so paralyses you that you end up being judged anyways. Ridiculous! Isn't it?
????????????????, ?????? ?????? ?????????? ???? ???? ????????????. ???? ?????? ??????'?? ???????? ????, ???????? ????????. ???? ?????? ???????? ???? - ???????? ????????. ???? ??????'?? ???????? ???? ???????????? ?????? ???????? ?????? ???????? ?????????? ????. ???????????? ???????? ??????!
??. ???????? ???? ?????????????????? ?????? ??????????????????: This one is paralyzing too. We think the worst outcomes all the time. Even when the outcomes haven't even happened. They might never happen.
??'???? ???????????? ???? ??????, "????????'?? ?????? ?????????? ???????? ?????? ?????????????" ???????? ???????????? ???????? ???? ???????? ?????? ???????????? ?????? ???????????? ?? ?????? ???? ???????? ??????????. ???? ?????????????? ????????'?? ?????? ?????????? ???????? ?????? ????????????. ?????? ???????? ???? ???????????????? ???? ?????????????????????? ???????? 4 ?????????? (??????????????). ???????????? ???? ???????? ???? ?? ?????????????? ?????????????????????? ?????? ?????? ?????? ?????????????? ???? ???????? ???????? ????????????????????????.
??. ???????? ???? ??????????????: This is the biggest monster in the room. We are all afraid of failing.
??????????????, ???? ?????????????? ???????? ?????????????????? ??????????????????. ???? ???? ?????? ?????? ?????????? ???? ???????? ????????????, ???? ?????? ???????????????????? ?????????? ???? ????????. ???? ???? ???????? ?????? ?????? ???? ????????, ???? ?????????? ???? ???????? ???????? ????????????????????. ???? ?? ??????, ?????? ???????????? ???????? ???????????? ???? ??????????????. ???????????? ???????? ???????????? ?????? ?????? ?????????? ???????? ???? ???????????? ???? ?????????? ??????????????. ???? ???????? ??????????????. ???? ???????? ???? ???????????? ????????????.
Now this is what we did on the coaching call. We declared some audacious goals. Some "Know out of the park goals." Promised some massive actions that we will take in the coming times. Really confronted the fear that stops us.
What made yesterday monumental is that, since morning I've already heard from 2 of my clients on how they would like to overcome the challenges and go ahead. So I know the conversation is on. I know the action is on.
If you read so far, then you know it's#???????????????????? #?????????????????? and I share an actionable tip.
So here is What You Can Do.
Imagine if there was no challenge, no lack of resources, nothing stopping you, no one to judge you and you knew everything there is to know - What would you want to accomplish in the next 12 months. Write it down. Make a plan. Take 1 bold action today. Tell your mind that you will do this even if you are afraid.
?????????? ???????? ???????????????????? ???????? ????. ?????? ???? ???????? ?????????? ?????? ?????? ???? ?????? ??????????????. ??????'?? ???????? ????????!
4
You, Sandeep Mukhi and 2 others