Sadness is the second name of comparison.

Sadness is the second name of comparison.

I neither feel anything different nor going to write something new or unique. Just want to speak out about sadness I have seen everywhere in people.

People are multitasking, they are doing job 9 to 10 hours in a day (Schedules are like meeting, calling, dealing, marketing, operation, etc... than family, friends, siblings, some hangout and many..)

We observe all people are happy but the truth is nobody is happy inside, they believe they are just machine, Is it??? Really ???

I want to know from you.. . what do you feel?? Are you really happy or not ?? take a break while reading and think.. what do you feel about yourself?

Have a answer?? still not?? still thinking... which thought came in your mind first?? Did you compare yourself with another person to see who is really more happier ?? any successful person you know?? If you have this kind of thoughts means you are the most saddest person in this world.

When you have your own goal, your own style, your own capability and personality than why you are comparing yourself with others when is the time to get successful or unsuccessful result ?

most of the time we have our own goal but at the same time we are fallowing someone else (Our role model from whom we heard their success story, whom we love and want to be like them). It's really good to follow someone's passion, hard-work and good things but never forget that you must have to develop your own... You can learn but you can't copy, if you will, you never get success. so please follow your own thoughts only. secondly never see other's success story because you never know how much hard-work and dedication they put into it to get it. you will just get a success moments from their life via comparing or copying, You never can get your right goal. so please follow yourself.

Be yourself, if you compare that person "A" is very successful and happy and trying to copy them, and if you can't adjust yourself for it or if you try to cop up other's lifestyle and try to get that things and can't able to manage than , you will disappoint yourself only so you don't need to do that, just be happy within you, make your things done by your own way, do something great at least once in a day (which is great according to you), feel the music and play the game, be "Mast" (as per Indian language), if your friend or colleague is more successful than you, enjoy his success because he is a winner of his own work, own style and within his own capabilities, he is different, "he is not you" so enjoy life's every moment, there is no need to run here and there for every little goal or to follow others blindly, find success& happiness within in yourself and finally be happy (originally)

 

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Mihir Jani

Sr. Manager at ICICI Bank Limited

8 年

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