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Sachin Chawla (Peace and Performance Mentor)
Peace & Performance Mentor | Helping Entrepreneurs & Leaders achieve calm, clarity, confidence & peak performance.
(From Couple Perspective)
Marriage is a beautiful phase of life where 2 people coming from different background- with different upbringing, different thoughts, different culture, different values tie knot for life time with the hope of better future. This beautiful relation is purely based on love, care, trust, respect, patience, values, growth, togetherness and the list is Endless…
"Anger" is other side of the relationship coin. We all get angry due to one reason or the other, genuine and sometimes reason is not even genuine but we get angry. Sometimes one person gets angry and sometimes both gets angry (worst situation) and during that phase both start shouting, using bad words for each other, release their frustrations by way of losing control on their words which worsens the situation.
But is it the right way?
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It is generally said that when couple has any dispute, they must resolve it before going to bed same day and must not carry it for next morning. Most of people agree to it too.
Till the time that dispute or difference of opinion gets resolved by the way of discussion, it’s completely fine but if is getting resolved with arguments – it’s completely wrong.
In "Arguments"- the intention is “I am right and I have to Win the argument” at any cost, during arguments, majority people lose their control on their tongue and speak bad words for other partner which gives emotional wounds and it becomes lifetime Emotional baggage for most of the individuals.
“Discussion” simply means “What is right for both of us and for better future”
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Good words will give you good relationship fruits and bad words will give you bad relationship fruits
Even the best relationships can be converted into worst relationship using bad tongue/ words and worst relationship can be converted into wonderful relationship
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