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A healthy relationship is simply a commitment between two? equals

Many people spend so much time looking for that "spark" in a relationship that they tend to forget the importance of determining whether the relationship is healthy or not for them

Before you can find true fulfillment and happiness with someone, you must first take a step back and learn how to have a healthy relationship

When considering how to have a healthy relationship, don't focus mainly on what the other person is like or what they can do for you, Instead, concentrate on the relationship itself and how the two of you interact.

What is that special thing that this relationship have? What is it that brings you and your partner together??

Close your eyes and picture yourself and your partner making each other happy

Consider how you would feel if you were completely fulfilled and loved by someone else

How does that make you feel? And most especially, why you're feeling that way?

There are many qualities? behind the way we feel and actions that makes up a healthy relationship

But no matter how you feel or how you met them, or the history you have together, a healthy relationships do have certain qualities

A healthy relationship is when you feel loved, respected and valued

Healthy relationships don't just happen, they take work, vulnerability and willingness to let go of that ego?

To find out if you're in a healthy relationship, first of all ask yourself if your relationship has these qualities:

? ??????????????: A healthy relationship is being honest with each other in whatever you did in the past and in the present.

A relationship built on lies will never work. It might seem well in the beginning, trying to cover up with so many lies and pretense, but in the end, the truth reveals itself

? ??????????????????????????: Communication is key in every relationship

This sounds so easy, yet partners fall out of it

Communicating with your partner is a connection and if you don't know how to communicate efficiently with your partner, then you should have a rethink of that relationship

? ??????????????: Respect in relationships is more important than love.

A partner can love you but have zero respect for you and hurt you repeatedly

Love is not all you need in relationship, respect is what you need, reassurance is what you need, happiness is what you need and someone who brings you peace of mind.

The most important thing in a relationship is respect, if you cannot do that, you can as well stay single

? ????????????????: The adage that says "What you feed grows, what you starve dies" is as straightforward as it sounds, even for the intimacy in your relationship.

After a relationship, then marriage. Many people change the relationship's diet altogether.

What they once gave freely is now something they stumble into at night, just because they are married

?? ????????????: A relationship's success isn't measured on how it last but by how fulfilled and how much growth you experience from being in it

If your relationship is not growing, it simply means it's dying.

???? ????????????????????: These qualities are as a result of commitment, it wouldn't be that easy but they are worth a healthy relationship

Building a healthy relationship doesn't happen overnight, it's about consistency overtime.

What's your take on this?