Running a Business While Caring for an Elderly Parent

Working from home sounds ideal—until you’re also responsible for an aging parent. My 97-year-old mother lives with me. She’s still sharp, still loves to cook (even though she can’t quite see over the stove), and keeps me entertained with her one-liners. But she also needs help, and I need to work.

For a while, I tried to do it all—running my business while keeping an eye on her. It wasn’t sustainable.

There were too many interruptions, like the time she spent 15 minutes loudly searching for a spoon while I was in a client session. By the time she found it, my focus was shot.

Now, I have a caregiver come in while I work. It’s been a game-changer. My mom gets companionship and support, and I get peace of mind and uninterrupted time to focus. It’s made all the difference.

Here’s what I’ve learned:

1. Help isn’t a luxury—it’s a necessity. Trying to do everything leads to burnout. Bringing in a caregiver allows me to show up fully for my business and my mom.
2. Companionship matters. My mom loves chatting with someone new, and I love not being the only one answering her questions.
3. Uninterrupted time is invaluable. Knowing she’s cared for lets me focus without guilt or distraction.

If you’re caring for a parent while working, what’s helped you manage? I’d love to hear what’s working (or what’s not). Let’s talk about it.

Love and Light,

Susan