Rules in Relationship.

While there is no official rule book created for relationships, after you get into one, some regulations need to be there. There are some unsaid hard and fast rules that help you achieve the vision of a relationship. Most relationships fall apart when no rules and responsibilities are attached to them.?

First of all choose your partner wisely, they will dictate 90% of your happiness. It's not a power that you give them and you can’t take that away from them either.

Don’t confuse sex with love

Love is the most studied, and it is still the most confusing kind of relationship ever.

Recognize that all relationships have their ups and downs

Cooperate and share responsibility

Maintain self-respect and self esteem

Apologize

Never go to sleep angry about your partner

Engaging yourself in a relationship is probably the most complicated yet straightforward thing if you are willing to follow some unwritten essential relationship rules.

As said, humans cannot thrive in the solitude of mind, emotions, body, and spirit. We must engage ourselves in relationships from time to time. It might be a casual relationship that involves deep romantic love and affection for each other.

Sex is good but pillow talk is even better

Being yourself is extremely important for a successful relationship, but sometimes it might be better to hold back a bit if that means going against the unwritten rules of relationships.

Check out the unspoken rules that you should always try to follow in your relationship, if you want to turn it into a happy lifelong commitment.

?While not every rule is a deal breaker, many of them can help you preserve the foundation of your relationship and keep you both happy.

Look good. Feel good. Don’t be sloppy

A good relationship is not a goal to achieve, it's a lifetime process, dont get tired.

Don’t take everything personally, sometimes it just bad day/mood

Listen Listen Listen

Being open to compromise is a must, but not every little detail has to be analyzed. If your guy isn’t the most organized man in the world, you shouldn’t turn yourself into a nag, and expect him to get everything right all the time. Choosing your battles for things that are really important versus things you can live with is a big deal.

Inject too much negativity through constant conflict and you’re risking your relationship.

Don’t assume or accuse. If you don’t understand something your partner does or says, talk to them about it

Disagreements don’t break relationships but name calling does

Be a team

Honesty builds trust and intimacy

Respect each other, can’t stress this enough

Accepting his family and friends is definitely one of the most important unwritten rules of relationships. As long as they’re not actually harmful to him or trying to sabotage your relationship, trying to get them out of his life won’t end well. Even if he’s venting about them to you, show empathy without piling on.

Intimacy is a very important part of your relationship, so keeping a lot of things private is a must, whether you’re talking to your friends about your partner or posting on social media. Set some ground rules about your privacy as a couple and stick to them. If you don’t, there’s a big chance he’ll feel betrayed by your sharing.

Keeping conflict contained is the right way to go. Escalating it to ultimatums and threats can be really damaging in the long run, and that’s one of the unwritten rules of relationships. Deal with your anger without going too far, because some things cannot be unsaid.

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Thank you ….Talking about the good and the bad can strengthen a relationship, but when you’re dealing with trouble in your life that he can’t fix, you shouldn’t keep discussing them with your guy.

Your partner can be a sounding board for your hopes and dreams, but if you constantly subject him to your negative thoughts, your emotional connection can suffer.

Many people have the same fights over the same things, and they wouldn’t describe their relationship as a happy one.

One of the unwritten rules of relationships is to learn to let go of conflict once it’s solved. Bringing up what the other did wrong a few years ago every time you get angry is not a good idea and it will affect the foundation of your relationship.

You should never stop respecting your partner, not even in the most heated arguments. If you use his weaknesses against him or really go to town with name calling, you’re creating a wall between the two of you. Fight fair and don’t ever use things he shared in confidence with you against him just because you’re mad and you want to hurt him.

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In our society we have a number of society norms that we abide by. For example, there is an unwritten rule of how one should behave in an elevator.

For example, it is proper to face front, stand away from strangers, and not to look at others. When a social norm is broken people may respond with alarm, humor, fear, irritation, or an array of other emotions.

When you think of a norm, you are probably thinking about being normal. But in psychology terms, norm means, a standard or representative value for a group.

The norm that is more common to people is a social norm. Meaning expectations about what behavior, thoughts, or feelings are appropriate within a given group within a given context.

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This rule actually occurs in all relationships, be they romantic, friendship, professional or family.

Sometimes, routine comes in. Sometimes you have nothing to say. Sometimes you feel like you understand yourself better at a glance, in silence. But this silence doesn’t do any good — this silence alienates, creates bridges, builds walls, and ultimately can destroy a relationship.

The necessary work in relationships: Learn to pay attention body and soul to what your partner has to say.

In our ordinary daily life, where there is routine, silence, habit, we assume that we have a meaningful communication in relationships. But it may not be true. Silent agreements are at stake even in the most harmonious and loving relationships.

Don’t let the silence take over your relationship. Start looking at your relationship — being attentive to your ideas, your beliefs, your values, your expectations, your everyday principles.

After making some personal reflections, try to communicate honestly and openly with your partner.

Always remain calm no matter what the situation. Remember that only with patience and sincerity can you communicate openly with your partner.

Don’t be surprised if you discover untold things about your partner in such a serious and honest discussion.

It is important to say what you have on your heart, to talk without a curtain, but when it comes time to listen to what your partner has to say to do it.

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