Rulebook

“Can you please change your profile picture…”

I ask “why??” ( I don’t find the profile picture in any way debilitating or inappropriate to say the least)

“That doesn’t look appropriate…!!” (pat came the reply)

Chilled astounded and even surprised at the response. Even more surprised at my raising temperatures I go into my shell. I am a human too….so as I cool down…I ponder…!!! How many of us go through the same objections every moment and that takes away the whiff of happiness in a fraction of second.

So where is the “Rulebook” which draws the boundaries of appropriateness. Where is it marked what ought to be the way forward and what ought to be missed or omitted. Where are these rules written…?

For me I could not see anything written anywhere. I did not see the boundaries ….in my sense perception the boundaries are obliterated. The rules are your world and when my world collides with yours the boundaries are gone forever… this is how we progress from our biased and opinionated self to the not so opinionated version.

What are the specific rules, if any, that exist... From my perspective, after a long break of several years, I came to realise...

1-? To see things as they truly are is the greatest gift one can give or receive. When we accept things as they are, without any distortion, it's like receiving unconditional love from someone who accepts you exactly as you are, in any form or shape.

2- The second rule that has remarkably transformed my perspective on life is "I am the mother to the world..." It's not about being difficult; it's about finding the inner strength that can heal you even when you're hurt deeply, even by those close to you.

3- The existence on the other hand has some rules which never falters….. you abide you sail upstream ….but you avoid or you resist the “hell breaks loose”.

Besides these, are there any explicitly defined rules? Because if rules were to be established, boundaries inevitably arise. The groundwork is laid out even before acknowledging reality.

This kept me at my edge for sometime a couple of hours which again soothes me as I grow and evolve and the time to handle these come down drastically.

So what are those rules or the rulebooks which time and again you have picked up in your stride…???? Do share

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