The romantic light of a construction lamp

In The Netherlands we have a TV show called ‘Help, my man is a handyman!’. It’s about women who are desperate as they are living in the middle of unfinished home improvements. They are living in never-ending chaos, dirt, mess, dust, and construction fumes. And these women are on the verge of a breakdown, as this is going on for months, if not years. And I thought I would never ever find myself in that situation.

As luckily, my husband Maurizio is very skilled. He can build almost anything. Whereas I have the wild ideas, but 2 left hands.

But, in the last couple of months, we found ourselves in a war zone.

It started out with the construction of a new wood burner. As we had to because of the gas prices. Due to mistakes of the fireplace supplier, this project took way longer than expected. For weeks our living room was covered in a thin layer of fine white dust.

Just before Christmas our new fireplace was finally up and running. You bet we drank a nice Prosecco to celebrate. And this finished project was the starting signal for more…

For 1,5 years I wanted to paint our kitchen wall green. Wanted to hang beautiful over-the-top lush wallpaper on our living room wall, and to replace the ugly yellow old curtains with fresh new ones.

I wanted to make the house that we bought a while ago really ours. To leave our mark. To decorate it our way.

But of course between the wild ideas, and actually doing this, there were a lot of excuses: ‘No time, too much hassle, too busy, other priorities, expensive,….’.

So all this time, ideas just stayed ideas. Until these holidays.

Motivated by our new fireplace, my husband and I decided it was time. That we were so done with the excuses and the procrastination.

Therefore, the last days have been relentless. We’ve been painting, hanging wallpaper, doing the curtains, cleaning, dusting, and redecorating.

And it is sooooo fulfilling. Every day I am sighing, ‘we should have done this 1,5 years ago’.

Yes, It’s hard work, yes it’s messy, and yes I would rather take a long bath or watch Netflix, instead of mixing paint with the beautiful romantic light of a construction lamp. Oh La la.

But it’s all so worth it.

And I realize that this also goes with personal development. As it’s like renovating yourself.

You may have the dream to let go of all those patterns, emotions, beliefs, and traumas that are keeping you small, unhappy, frustrated, stressed, and in survival mode.

But actually starting to do something about it, is not an easy step. You start to self-sabotage. To procrastinate, and find all kinds of excuses to postpone.

Then once you start, 4 out of 5 women may find that it’s all not working for them. No matter what they do, how many self-help books they read, and programs they follow, they don’t find long-term healing. As after a while they fall back to old patterns and behaviors. This is when they (and maybe you too) become demotivated, frustrated, disappointed, and sceptical. It’s taking so long. It’s hard and painful. Like the women in the TV show ‘Help, my man is a handyman!’ experience.

But you also know, that giving up is not an option either. You long for more fulfilment, happiness, warmth, success, and coming home to you.

So what to do?

Now let me reveal to you, it’s not you doing the wrong things. It’s the processes, tools and techniques offered to you by most coaches and therapists that are deep-down not suitable for you as a woman. They are not fitting the needs of a FEMALE brain and system, as they are developed initially for men(!).

So I believe it's high time for something really different. Really unique. Really for women. And that comes with real lasting results quickly.

To finally break the cycle and patterns of your negative emotions, limiting beliefs, intergenerational trauma, negative head chatter, PTSD, and anything else holding you back, we need a different approach: A modality uniquely designed for us women (which doesn't work on men). One that aligns your head-heart-and gut so you not only rationally know you're good enough, but feel it deep down too.

One that provides safe and advanced healing in a deep way at the root of the issues without the need to relive trauma.

And one that comes with fast, profound, and guaranteed results.

I have this beautiful and lasting personal breakthrough program for you, which sets you free from your mental and emotional blockages once and for all. It uses the only female-formulated method in the world, which is called Creatrix?.

And for you to make sure this really works, see this video of Anke. Anke came to me 4 years ago. Now she shares with you what the effects of the program were, and still are, all these years later. https://youtu.be/0C-R0d2NJAU

Now if this resonates with you, and you don’t want to be in that chaos and mess any longer, let’s have a chat.

You'll find the link to my calendar here: www.meetme.so/momsandmore

Speak soon!

Nikolien

PS. Here is a photo of the green wall and the new wallpaper, and you can still see the ugly yellow old curtains ??