The Role Parents Play During a School Meeting

During? SST(Student Support Team) at school meetings I have been a teacher and a parent advocating for my son. My next article will be my opinion on what the teacher’s role should be in my opinion. In this article, I speak as a mother of an ADHD son. Parents play a critical role during school meetings, serving as advocates, partners, and collaborators in their child's education. To make the most of these interactions, it is important for parents to approach school meetings with a calm, constructive, and positive mindset. Whether the discussion involves academic progress, behavioral concerns, or special allocations for a child, fostering a collaborative atmosphere is key to achieving the best outcomes for everyone involved. It doesn’t do your child any good to enter the meeting full of a rage, asking questions like, “Why haven’t you done anything for my child? What’s wrong with this process? I know, decades ago I made that mistake as a frustrated mother with a child in need of academic help. Here are some suggestions based on my experiences.?

Preparation Before the Meeting

1. Schedule the Meeting Properly:
2. Gather Necessary Documentation:
3. Set a Positive Tone:

During the Meeting

1. Stay Calm and Respectful:
2. Advocate Without Demanding:
3. Focus on Solutions:
4. Stay Positive and Grateful:

Special Allocations and Conferences

If the meeting involves determining special allocations for your child, such as extra support for learning disabilities or accommodations for physical challenges, there are specific steps you should follow:

1. Request Formal Evaluations:
2. Understand Your Rights:
3. Be Patient and Open-Minded:
4. Collaborate on Goals:

Maintaining a Positive Relationship with the Team

1. Show Appreciation:
2. Communicate Regularly:
3. Be Flexible:

Conclusion

Parents are vital partners in their child’s education. By staying calm, positive, and solution-focused during school meetings, you can foster a strong, respectful relationship with the educational team. Advocating for your child doesn’t mean demanding immediate action—it means working collaboratively to ensure the best possible outcomes. A united approach benefits everyone, especially your child, and helps create an environment where they can thrive.