The Rock Paradox
Joe Jacobi
Olympic Gold Medalist?? Performance Coach ?? Author ??? Unlock Your Why, Achieve Impacting Wins, & Ride Spectacular Life Waves ??
I listen as the sales trainer attempts to connect with the audience of sales professionals. In an effort to differentiate himself, he chooses an analogy about the navigation of river rapids.
"It's just like paddling a canoe down the river," the sales trainer says.
With more than four decades of paddling experience myself and as an eternal student of the river, I turn all of my attention to what the sales trainer will say next.
"The river is much easier to navigate if you just remove all of the rocks."
The sales trainer suggests that if we remove the big obstacles in our path, we can more easily find faster flow.
I can see how the sales trainer believes this outcome would liberate people from something that holds them back.
But, the usage of this analogy is neither realistic nor true.
A large obstacle or challenge situated in the river current of your life appears restrictive and intimidating. But, such a rock does not just disappear on its own.
To rid the river of this rock requires a lot work. Someone would have to do it. And that someone would be you.
Your efforts to remove - or even avoid - the rock only reinforces the obstacle's position as an obtrusive blockade.
But, what if a rock does not obstruct the flow? Rather, what if a rock simply directs the flow?
Herein lies a major mindset shift.
When your perceived obstruction guides the flow, a strategic response emerges. You enact a plan that identifies a path through the rapid.
Now, you no longer empower the obstacle. Instead, you direct yourself towards the rock in alignment with the true river current that runs through your life.
This is the moment that the flow of advancement appears. But, only with the essential help of the rock.
With gratitude,
-Joe
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5 年A wonderful analogy that resonates with me. Thank you Joe xx
What’s a fantastic truth about how best to see the obstacles In life. Thanks.
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5 年Reminds me of Stand Like Mountain, Flow Like Water: Reflections on Stress and Human Spirituality Revised and Expanded Tenth Anniversary Edition https://g.co/kgs/rgCEti
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5 年I love this post. The rocks in the river are what taught me to change my perspective. When I once thought moving up a rapid in a kayak was impossible, I later learned that I can use the hydraulic formed behind the rock to surf over and attain upstream. I literally learned to go with the flow both on and off the river.
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5 年Great thoughts, Joe.? I'd argue the entire assumption that removing rocks makes a river easier to navigate is not necessarily accurate.? Removing a rock could also remove the eddy behind it that you can relax in.? Or the removal of the rock may create a new hole, or allow more cfs through less space which of course lowers the entire level of the river, thus making it tougher to navigate.? ?Rather than seeing a rock as an obstacle to be removed, we should be looking at them as opportunities.