The Roadblocks That Fuel the Fire: Turning Obstacles into Strength
Elga Lejarza aPHR PHR SPHR SHRM-CP SHRM-SCP GPHR
CEO/Owner of HRTrainingClasses.com? & HRDevelop.com
If there’s one thing I know for sure, it’s that nothing worth having comes easy. My journey has been anything but smooth, far from a path lined with white and red rose petals. Instead, I’ve walked a winding and bumpy road filled with broken glass, sharp rocks, winding paths, and lurking dangers like snakes and alligators. At times, I’ve wondered, “Why does everything have to be so difficult?” But then I remind myself, I am not here for the easy path. I am here for the path that makes me unstoppable.
Every obstacle I’ve faced has tried to break me, but instead, it has fueled my fire. The roadblocks? They only make me more determined. The setbacks? They sharpen my skills. The failures? They teach me lessons I would have never learned on an easy road. I do not see obstacles as barriers, I see them as challenges to conquer. And with every challenge I overcome, I become stronger, more resilient, and more prepared for the success that is meant for me.
I’ve come to realize that the struggle is not meant to stop me—it’s meant to shape me. If success came without sweat, pain, and effort, it wouldn’t feel as fulfilling. It is in the moments of adversity that I find out what I’m really made of. And guess what? I refuse to back down. Every time life tries to slow me down, I use it as fuel to push harder, to work smarter, and to keep moving forward.
Think about it—have you ever met someone who was handed everything on a silver platter and truly appreciated it? Probably not. The people who value their success the most are the ones who fought for it. They bled for it. They lost sleep, faced rejection, and still refused to give up. That’s the kind of success I want—the kind I’ve earned. And that’s exactly why no matter what obstacles I encounter, they will never stop me.
So, when the road gets rough, when it feels like every step forward comes with another hurdle, I remind myself: This is my test. This is my proving ground. This is what will make me unstoppable. I am not here for the easy win—I am here for the hard-fought victory. Because in the end, it’s not about how fast I get there—it’s about the strength I build along the way.
To anyone who feels like they’re facing a winding and bumpy road filled with broken glass, sharp rocks, winding paths, and lurking dangers like snakes and alligators—Use them. Let them fuel your fire. Let them make you so strong that nothing can shake you. Because when you finally reach your destination, you won’t just have success—you’ll have a story of resilience, power, and perseverance that no one can take away from you. And that? That is worth everything.
Elga Lejarza
Founder & CEO
HR.Communityy
LejarzaWorkforceSolutions
SVP, Employee Benefits at Weatherford Insurance
23 小时前Well said! Persistence and adaptability will eventually lead to success. Learning from failures, adjusting strategies, and continuing to push forward despite obstacles. Being unstoppable means setbacks become temporary, and losses become lessons. That mindset makes winning inevitable. ??