The Rising Challenge of Marriage Decline in India
During the 2014 Lok Sabha elections in Haryana, a group of young men, led by Pradeep Singh, presented a unique demand to politicians - "A vote for a bride." This demand was put forth by the Jind Kunwara Union, an organization of unmarried men in the state who were unable to find wives. The issue of unmarried men in India has become increasingly apparent, with statistics indicating a rise in the number of unmarried Indian men from 51% in 2007 to 61% in recent years. This article aims to explore the reasons behind this phenomenon and its consequences for Indian society.
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Reasons for Declining Marriages in India:
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Skewed Sex Ratio and Insufficient Brides:
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One major reason for the decline in marriages is the scarcity of women. The low sex ratio in India, with only 925 girls being born for every 1000 boys, has contributed to the challenge of finding suitable brides. This skewed ratio can be attributed to the practice of selective abortions based on gender. In turn, the societal perception of girls as financial burdens and the related expenses associated with their upbringing and marriage contribute to this issue.
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Preference for Grooms with Government Jobs:
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The preference for grooms with government jobs is another factor impacting marriage rates in India. Families often prioritize prospective grooms working in the government sector due to the financial security and stability they provide. This preference can lead to challenges for individuals without government jobs, including instances where couples face resistance from families, such as in the case of Hafsa and Aadil, or farmers struggling to find brides in Maharashtra's Marathwada region.
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Voluntary Choice of Not Getting Married:
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Financial insecurity has emerged as a significant reason for many young men opting not to marry. A considerable number of millennials, nearly 40%, expressed their reluctance to marry due to financial instability. In their view, marriage seems impractical when they feel financially unprepared.
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Consequences Faced by Society:
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Impact on Men:
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The refusal of men to marry has serious mental health implications. Unmarried men often experience depression and feelings of social inadequacy. Many have lost job opportunities, like the engineer mentioned, or even experienced the loss of loved ones, emphasizing the need for society to acknowledge and discuss men's mental health challenges.
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Impact on Women:
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The decline in marriages has created a mixed impact on women. While some have become more independent and empowered in their freedom of choice, others have been subjected to forced marriages, such as the underage "Mol ki bahuein" brides from other states. Furthermore, the emphasis on marrying grooms with government jobs can restrict a woman's opportunities in terms of partner selection and potential financial independence.
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Crime Rate:
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The link between unmarried men and crime has been raised as a concern in certain regions. While no specific research in the Indian context exists, studies from other countries suggest that marriage can play a crucial role in reducing criminal behavior among men. Marriage brings added responsibilities and societal judgment, which can deter individuals from engaging in unlawful activities.
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Conclusion:
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The decline in marriages among young Indians demands attention and a multi-pronged approach to finding solutions. Encouraging inter-caste and inter-state marriages, improving the sex ratio, promoting gender equality and financial security for women, as well as prioritizing discussions around men's mental health, are essential steps towards addressing this issue. Only through open dialogue and collective efforts can Indian society progress towards a more inclusive and balanced equilibrium in the realm of marriage.
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2 个月Huge money required to marriage life, women can file divorce got 40 lakh 50 lakh upto 10 caror as alimony , you may loose child and wife , but money debited continuously for maintaining to your divorce wife , and. Again be ready to be single in old age ?? 45% sallary always gone to your divorcee wife ,lyf become more hell , You see the news of atul subhash suicide case , 40k for maintain child cost which is increased upto 2 lakh per month by corrupt feminist judiciary orders to pay 3 caror for alimony settlement. , marriage end under 6 month and huge money loss occured by bastard law
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7 个月Why are we not accounting for the marital laws in india which are making men more handicapped and helpless after every amendment. if BNS comes into action you'll see a straight 10% increase in declining rate of marriages in Indian cities specially in the case of educated women. Note it.
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1 年I 32 right now and decided not to marry. I earn, cook, clean my house, take care of my parents and everything in my own hand don’t feel I need to get marriage ever. No need to spend 5-10 lakhs in wedding which may have no return. Divorce rate is rising, women file fake rape/domestic violence cases against men/husband. Individuality is important. Regarding kids, India is overpopulated; cost of education, property, and healthcare is rising alarmingly. Don’t want to bring a child in a country which have corrupted govt. poor infrastructure, lack of resources to lead a average life. Better travel, invest money in FD, MF, stocks and create wealth and adopt kids.
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1 年India witnesses a rising marriage decline as societal norms evolve. Economic independence, changing priorities, and a focus on individual aspirations contribute to a shifting landscape in relationship choices.