The Rise of the Super Bully!
Rachel Banks
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Throughout my whole Career I have seen it all when it comes to Bullying Behaviour.
I have experienced bullying and I have witnessed situations that still haunt me to this day.
So nothing phased me when a client would share an experience that they had gone through.
Being able to hold the space for when they would open up has been such a gift.
However in the last year I realised I hadn't heard it all when we came to Bullies!
We are now dealing with Super Bullies who think it's OK to project their unhealed wounds onto their colleagues and people around them.
2020 was the year to heal and work on yourself and many AWARE people realised this and got to work on themselves. If you had any unhealed wounds they would have come to the surface last year which would haven you the opportunity to heal and grow!
But some people didn't get the memo to heal and grow and decided to not deal with their own crap and take it out on others!
So now we have the SUPER BULLY!
The Super Bully is full of FEAR! They seek to to serve themselves by trying to master the world around them. There is no accountability with this type of person, they are unable to deal with their own trauma and therefore they make everyone else's life miserable around them.
They go around like a wounded bear picking on anyone who shows strength and growth.
The Super Bully is intimidated by other people's growth. Deep down they want to grow and heal but somewhere along the way they limited themselves and now they are STUCK.
They are master manipulators and have been mastering their skills for years! They operate on a very low frequency and they will do everything they can to keep you on a low frequency.
So what can we do to combat the Super Bully!
Become fearless by mastering your own growth and start working on your unhealed wounds.
The reason we are triggered by these people is because they are triggering trauma we have not dealt with within ourselves. When we work on our own hurt eventually toxic people loose a hold over us.
Surround yourself with positive people who support you and your growth! Get help if you are dealing with a bully and talk about it! Nothing phases me now, that's for sure! So if you dealing with a bully and would like a chat. Message me.... I am always here for you!
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3 年I love this and must say it is so true ??