Right or Wrong?!?!?!

Right or Wrong?!?!?!



You form an opinion.

It’s your opinion.

You believe it’s right.

You share your belief.

You’re firm on your belief.

You’re committed to your belief.

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There’s two sides to every story.

What if you’re missing something?

What if you’re wrong?

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Here’s 4 ways to balance all sides:

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1.?????? Perspective

2.?????? Knowledge

3.?????? Facts

4.?????? Fess up!

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1.?????? Perspective

Who’s perspective?

Are you hearing, understanding different viewpoints?

A new way,

Learning opportunity.

Opportunity to revalidate your beliefs.

Make it even stronger.

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2.?????? Knowledge

Asking questions.

Gaining knowledge.

Challenging information.

Analyzing data.

Better appreciation before formalizing a solution.

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3.?????? Facts

Do you have all the facts?

? history

? numbers

? situation

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Supporting and defending you?

Not based on rumours or gossip.

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4.?????? Fess up!

Nobody is perfect.

Own up to it!

Learn from it.

When you’re not right,

The more you fight,

The deeper the bite.

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Thanks for reading.?

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