Right now, buying or selling a home has more wobbles than a royal trifle

Regardless of market conditions, buying a home is a mission that starts as a practical and financial enterprise but quickly transcends into a dark psychological dimension the second we step into a home we love.

Then it becomes about tuning into our "feelings" and being led by our emotions.?

Generally, after kicking back with a few vinos and back-of-the-envelope calculations, it's on for young and old:?

Let's buy a bigger house!

Let's buy a smaller house!

Let's swap the house for an apartment!

Let's live by the beach!

There seems to be this notion that buying property is as easy as a one-horse race.

Yet, most people agree it is one of the most challenging things we're ever likely to do. Yep, it can be one hell of a tough slog!

So, why are we so shocked when we set out to find a home and get smashed by the emotional tsunami??

Why are we unprepared for the physical and mental drain that is part and parcel of buying?

Why are we not prepared for the stress??

Surely we would be better placed to pace ourselves and less likely to feel defeated when things don't go our way if we were.

Second, if we had the skills to manage our emotions, we'd?know when to walk away.?

Third, we'd save ourselves a nervous breakdown.

And hey, presto, just like that, the whole buying a house whatchamathingy just became much less painful!

If you or someone you know is struggling with their property search, feel free to reach out for a chat. It won't cost you anything, but you might come away with clarity, inspiration and a clear head!

If you want to explore market value, please get in touch?Trelease Associates. We know the Sydney market well and understand it. If you'd like advice about the property market, whether you want to sell, buy or lease, we're here to help. Email: [email protected]