?? Rewrite Your Life Story: Hollywood Does It, So Can You! ??
Bev Hepting
Award-Winning Storyteller | International & TEDx Speaker | "Retiring | Continuing to Serve some Clients | Transitioning to Empower Women 60+ to Live Their 3rd Act with Power & Passion ??"
?? Rewrite Your Life Story: Hollywood Does It, So Can You! ??
Gather ‘round, friends, because today we’re talking about something that unites us all: our stories. Every single one of us is living out a grand, messy, unpredictable story made up of countless smaller ones. Some chapters are pure comedy gold (like that time I wore mismatched shoes to a meeting), others are edge-of-your-seat thrillers, and yes, a few might feel like a tearjerker you wish would skip to the credits. But here’s the plot twist: you are the screenwriter of your life, and you can rewrite the script anytime you want. Hollywood does it all the time, so why not you?
Life: The Original Netflix Series
Think about it—what makes a great story? Drama? Check. Plot twists? Double check. That one cringe-worthy moment you’ll never live down? Oh, absolutely. But here’s the thing about stories: they’re never set in stone.
Even Hollywood knows this. How many remakes of Batman are we on now? Lost count? Me too. The point is, they know when something isn’t working, they rewrite it. They tweak it, recast it, and give it a fresh ending. Why? Because a good story evolves.
Your life is no different. You’re not stuck in one genre. Just because your past chapters might read like a tragic Hallmark drama doesn’t mean your future can’t be a rom-com, a feel-good adventure, or even an epic superhero saga (cape highly encouraged).
Letting the Past Direct Your Future: A Plot Hole
Imagine if every movie kept dragging its past mistakes into the sequel. It’d be like Sharknado 12 saying, “Well, we used fake-looking sharks in the first one, so we’re stuck with them now.” That’s ridiculous, right? Yet, so many of us live our lives like that. We let old failures, embarrassing moments, or the opinions of others dictate what happens next.
Here’s the reality: holding onto your past mistakes is like carrying around a flip phone in a world of iPhones. Sure, it worked once, but come on, it’s time to upgrade.
Turn the Page, Write the Next Chapter
Every story has moments we’d rather not re-watch. (Raise your hand if you’ve ever laid awake replaying that one thing you said in 2004. No? Just me?) But the magic of storytelling is that it’s fluid. You can always turn the page.
Want proof? Look at J.K. Rowling—she didn’t let rejection letters stop her from writing Harry Potter. Oprah didn’t let getting fired derail her career. And you don’t have to let your high school perm dictate your hairstyle forever (no judgment, but let’s move on).
Your Past is Your Backstory, Not Your Blueprint
Here’s a little secret: your past isn’t meant to hold you hostage. It’s meant to give depth to your story. The tough times? They’re character development. The embarrassing moments? Comedy relief. The failures? Plot twists that lead to the comeback.
If anything, your past is like an old recipe book. Some of the dishes were amazing (remember your grandma’s cookies?), but some of them (looking at you, tuna jello salad) are best left behind. Take what works, toss what doesn’t, and cook up something better for the future.
Start Your Rewrite Today
So, what story do you want to write from here? A tale of triumph? A journey of self-discovery? A rom-com where you fall madly in love with your own fabulous self? (Spoiler alert: that one has a killer ending.)
Remember, you’re not stuck with the first draft of your life. Turn the page. Change the narrative. Add a musical montage if you want. Just don’t let the past direct your future—it’s not the boss of you.
Now go out there and live your next chapter like it’s a box-office hit. And if you need a little inspiration, just ask yourself: “What would Hollywood do?”
Cue the dramatic music. ??