Rewrite the damn story of your's.
If you honestly think that you have the power to change your story you can. Read this and get an insight of how? It's ok to be Vulnerable, weak, do mistakes it is our story but we can rewrite our character for sure. We can replace the characters too in our stories.
All this can happen by Courage, Truthfulness, Vulnerability, integrity and by defining our Boundaries.
We have to own our #story. I was writing this morning about our stories and how we write it sometime in our head to feel great, miserable, broken, superior, inferior. It is interesting to know how much we give power to the story what we make. We bring the character in that to look exactly the way we want us to look.
Let me give you an example of that I made a story in my head I am the great friend, good hearted and everyone plays around me. I invented characters which exactly was doing what I wrote. I started feeling less, worthless, lonely and my story main character which was me become a good hearted, miserable character.
We have the power to change our story, we can rewrite. We can change the character in that. But this is only possible when we accept we are Human and we do have weaknesses and what exactly is going with our story. What pain or pleasure we are creating.
1- The first step is to accept it fully that this is your story.
2-Write it with pen and paper you're the story, very truthfully.
3-Describe your character.
4-Know your vulnerability.
5- Now its time to write your values.
6-Define your Boundaries.
7-What is this story bringing you or you are gaining out of it?
8- Awareness.
9- Rewrite your story.
10- If some character in that is making you weak, asking you to play small. Change those characters. Remember it's your story.
11- Be courageous to own your story again.
12- Write often to see the script how it's going.
13- Always take out your list of integrity, boundaries, values in front of you and access it.
Give yourself the power to write something which will evolve you. Be courageous, it's ok to be heartbroken but be #compassionate, #kindn and follow your #integrity not easy but achievable.