Rethinking the Doctor-Patient Relationship in Cancer Care: My Journey from Oncologist to Integrative Healer

"We put the oncologist on this pedestal where they know everything, they have all the information and we don't question..." - Dr. Katie Deming?

As a recent guest on the "Better Than Before Breast Cancer with The Breast Cancer Recovery Coach" podcast, I shared a crucial aspect of cancer care: the doctor-patient relationship.

I saw how patients often view their doctors as all-knowing saviors. While this trust is important, it can sometimes lead to a passive approach to treatment. Patients may defer all decisions to their doctors without fully understanding their options or potential consequences.

Limitations of Medical Training

As oncologists, we receive extensive training in a specific medical model. However, this model often focuses solely on the physical aspects of cancer, potentially overlooking other crucial factors in healing. It's important for patients to understand that while we have expertise, our knowledge has limitations.

Empowering Yourself with Information

"Your oncologist is not your healer. You are the healer. This is one thing that I'm very clear on now. I don't do any healing. I support my clients in them healing themselves." - Dr. Katie Deming?

I encourage patients to take an active role in their treatment. Ask detailed questions about potential side effects and complications. Don't be afraid to think about what could go wrong - this isn't pessimism, it's being prepared and informed.

This is perhaps the most crucial shift in perspective I've had since moving to integrative practice. Your oncologist should be seen as a knowledgeable guide rather than an all-powerful savior. We can provide expertise and treatment options, but ultimately, you are in charge of your healing journey.

Taking Responsibility for Your Healing

"You have to be ready to take responsibility to truly heal on a deep level." - Dr. Katie Deming?

This doesn't mean blaming yourself for your illness. It means being proactive in your treatment decisions and overall health. It means listening to your body and advocating for yourself.

Cancer affects not just you but everyone around you. Building a supportive team - which may include various healthcare professionals, family, and friends - is crucial for your journey.

Redefining the doctor-patient relationship in cancer care is about recognizing that while your oncologist brings valuable medical expertise, you bring equally important insights about your health, values, and goals. Together, we can create a treatment plan that aligns with your needs and supports your overall well-being.

You are your own healer.

I'm here to guide and support you on that journey.

Listen to the entire conversation on the “Born to Heal” podcast.