Respiration II

Now that we have covered the basics, let’s start getting detailed.

When we move the diaphragm and therefore our lungs, we draw in oxygen in the air that split down the main, lobar and segmental bronchi to the alveoli, the air is then pumped through blood-soaked ‘cotton’ that absorbs the oxygen through haemoglobin.

Inside the haemoglobin, there are four heme molecules that each contain an iron atom at the centre. The electrophilic iron atoms attract the electronegative oxygens and form a delta bond, the iron adopting delta+, the oxygen adopting delta-.the ionic bond formed between them attracts them together and binds the oxygen to the haemoglobin for the bumpy ride through the circulatory system.

The above section is the unedited writings of my son.

Respiration and Coaching II

If respiration is the taking of oxygen into the body, then coaching is the taking of perspective into the mind.?

A body without new oxygen is soon dead. The same can be said of a mind without new perspectives.

Many of the issues we face in life and work are the result of the perspectives we choose to take.?

Shifting our perspective can often help us to increase our performance, improve our relationships, and see new solutions to our long held problems.

In respiration, many people have poor habits. They take breaths that are too quick or too shallow. Some even do things like smoking that damage their respiratory systems.

Similarly, people have poor habits of thinking. They jump to conclusions too quickly, or take too shallow a perspective. Some even hold onto to prejudices or emotions that adversely affect their viewpoints.

So how can coaching help?

Like giving extra oxygen to a patient, coaching can inject fresh perspective into a mind. This extra might be the exact thing a person need to solve their issues and reach their goals.

Unfortunately, coaching isn’t going to solve all of it. A lot still depends on the person.

Covid taught us that even with oxygen machines, a person will still not make it if his body is unable to take in the oxygen.

With coaching, a client always has the choice of whether or not he wants to take in the new perspective.

An atmosphere of safety and trust will greatly help, but ultimately, the choice is always with the client.?

What can you do with this information as a leader?

One of the most pressing problems I see in leaders right now is the high pressure environments they are under at work.?

After covid, there has been a continual stream of reorganisations to companies in many industries. From tech layoffs to centralisation of functions to global, leaders are being asked to deliver on their KPIs when the company is in complete flux. People are uncertain what they are expected to deliver in their new roles and what is the ways of working they are supposed to operate under going forward.?

Externally, with an ongoing war in Europe, presidential elections in America, and recession in China, organisations are also facing volatile economic situations and unpredictable market demands. This has resulted in more work needed to convince customers to buy right when downsizing and hiring freezes are being implemented in many companies.

If you have always been high performing and now you find yourself falling behind and unable to cope with the workload, what do you do?

Step 1: Stop and breathe

It sounds like an impossible ask, but you are going to HAVE to carve out some time to stop.?

A constant frenzy of activities feels reassuring and may go towards checking off more items on your to-do list, but it doesn’t break the cycle.

You NEED to stop doing, and start reflecting. That takes a lot of courage because the anxiety will eat at you, and the fear of further falling behind will rise up in the back of your throat.

Do it anyway.

Step 2: Take in a new perspective?

You’ve stopped. You’re sitting now at the desk in the short time you’ve carved out for yourself to reflect. Now what?

Take a good hard look at your calendar and drop everything you can drop.

Your first instinct will be that everything needs to be there. There is nothing you can remove from your calendar.?

I’ve done this exercise with numerous leaders and that’s always the first response. They go through their calendar and nothing can be removed.

Let me spoil the story by saying that at the end of the coaching session, every single one of them have remove quite a few things from their calendar.

What changed?

Their perspective.

I offer you three perspective changes:

Perspective 1: KPI impact

Realise that you WILL have to drop some balls. Decide now which balls have the most impact on your KPIs.?

In Shreyas Doshi’s LNO framework (https://www.dhirubhai.net/pulse/lno-framework-explained-shreyas-doshi-dualoop/), L stands for leveraged, where the impact greatly outweighs the effort and time. N is neutral where the impact is what you’d expect from the time and effort you put in. Finally, O is overhead, where the impact is less.

Drop all the O balls as quickly as you can.?

Strike them out in your calendar and inform your boss or the other stakeholders that you’ll no longer be involved in them.

Perspective 2: Mind your own business

Working with high performance leaders, I realise that many of them go above and beyond their own KPIs.

I have leaders cover other people’s jobs due to vacancy, long term illness, or maternity. They work on process improvements for the organisation, organise events for staff, get involved in internal projects unrelated to their jobs, and even mentor others in the organisation not on their teams.?

This is all fantastic when you have the bandwidth. If you’re falling behind on your own work, then it’s time to get out of all these extra arrangements.?

Talk to your manager or the organising committee and figure out how soon you can exit the extra work you’re doing.

Perspective 3: Work in your area of strength

Look through the sum total of the work you do.?

Which ones do you love doing? Which ones are in your areas of strength?

As a senior leader, you’re probably good at many things. That doesn’t mean they are your areas of natural strengths.

A natural strength is where you can become good effortlessly, where working more of it brings you greater satisfaction, and where you improve greatly with only a little more effort.?

Identify the areas of your greatest strengths and double down your efforts on them.

On the other hand, look at all the stuff you do that you hate doing.?

Find a way to eliminate or delegate as much of them as you can.

First figure out if you can completely eliminate the task. If not, see if there is a way that technology or other systems can do it instead of you.?

If not, delegate it to another person.

Just because we don’t enjoy something does not mean others don’t. The nature of strengths is that we all have different areas that we innately excel in.?

Delegate a task not in your areas of strength to a team member for which it is a strength.?

Step 3: Make it continuous

Just like a regular practice of breathwork can send more oxygen into your body, regular coaching sessions can ensure that you get a continuous stream of new perspectives.

Most of the leaders I work with have found coaching to be essential to them regaining performance and maximising their potential at work.

A coach is like a personal trainer for the mind. In the gym, a personal trainer can help you become better, stronger faster while avoiding any injuries.?

As a coach, my job is to help your mind become better, stronger faster while avoiding any pitfalls and blindspots.?

If your work is extremely demanding, then your coach can be one of the most vital sources of support for you.

Final Product

Breathing is both conscious and unconscious. We breathe all the time, but we can also stop and choose to take deep breaths to deliberately relax ourselves or prime ourselves for what’s to come.

Likewise, we are taking in new perspectives every day whether we know it or not. This can be an unconscious process where we absorb ideas and assumptions from social media, popular culture, or those around us.?

Or it can be a conscious effort on our side to rethink our limiting beliefs or fixed mindsets so that we can better reach our goals and resolve the longstanding issues of our lives.?

What do you choose to do?

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