RESPECT
The real power comes from true respect. Not fear, not admiration or worship, not envy or insecurity. In modern society, many public and private figures carry an aura of apparent respect that in fact stands on a weak foundation: just think how easily a politician falls when it’s discovered he’s had an affair or has misappropriated public funds, how quickly a media celebrity goes out of favor once their sales start to sag. We are learning not to respect, but to want—we are taught to desire fame, money, status, influence, power—and eternal youth. These are the values celebrated by our media and our leaders. Respect for ourselves, for one another and our planet doesn’t seem to have a seat at the table. This needs to change if we are going to live in a stable, sustainable, and equitable world.
It means basing your sense of self and identity on your own thoughts and observations, not those of others. This applies to both negative and positive input—whether someone criticizes or insults you or praises or supports you. Your self-respect needs to be independent and free of external influence, for only then can you begin to extend true respect to others. And that’s where the real power is born. It’s quiet and understated but will last you a lifetime.
This is not the time to publish my book, "SNAPPING BACK" and my associates say, Autumn is perfect. I am patient. My time with then-Mayor Newsom changed me for life; for the good. #SNAPPINGBACK