Respect anyone who puts aside ego and apologises
Kishore Ramkrishna Shintre
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Ego is that evil quality which prevents you from bending over in front of anyone , whatever be the circumstances. It hampers the smooth bond of friendship shared between two people because no one is ready to compromise with the other , thereby resulting in a conflict and shattering of the bond.
Even though you are aware of being at fault and that it's your duty to go up to your friend and apologising in order to prevent things from worsening further and clear things up , the ego within you would debar you from such an act making you realise that it will reduce your importance in front of someone and spoil your dignity !
Always remember that friendship is that sweet and important bond which should rarely be caused to weaken .Sometimes mishaps do occur , some on purpose, some on accident while some due to sheer misunderstanding between the two that shakes the foundation and separates you.
It's of course your duty under such circumstances to shed off your ego and reconcile to the fact that good friends once lost are difficult to be made again and hence go up to your friend to patch things up that will consolidate the bond even further.
We all agree that ego is cumulative nature you have built all the while which are picked up for right and wrong reasons in past for certain situation and experience you have undergone. The past cannot be blamed as all have such flaw’s not you alone.
This brings us to another interesting question that all have certain flaws and when we keep trying to work in relative platform of reference and if such reference between two are 180 degrees apart even the right statement would be heard as wrong.
We need to make an attempt to reduce the relative reference and for that we need to try with another’s psyche in accepting the difference which would show the act of humility.
Ego is actually nothing but false pride. And false things will reap wrong results. Communication and understanding are the keys for success in any kind of relationship. Friendship being the most pious and treasured bond should always be free from this barrier.
The moment we space for ego to creep into any relationship, it will eat away the warmth of love. It will slowly kill any strong bond and you will even not the death of your friendship.
So lighten up your heart from this burden and communicate. A true friend will always understand. And if not, you will still not lose anything. Your heart will always be buoyant and you will be free from any kind of guilt. Stay blessed! #kishoreshintre
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4 年Thank you Kishore Shintre for teaching this valuable lesson.
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4 年Absolutely.... it’s not easy to apologise but is better when relationships are at stake and you know your fault deep in your heart.
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4 年Brilliant analysis- very apt explanation of how good relationships get destroyed- a must read for everybody- a wonderful lesson which no school,college,university,management institute teaches.