Resolutions Fail. Aligment Wins.

Resolutions Fail. Aligment Wins.

Let’s be honest. Most resolutions fail because they’re focused on doing, not being. Lose 10 pounds. Get the promotion. Be more organized. Sound familiar? These goals only scratch the surface, leaving you spinning your wheels.?

But what if this year you said, “I’m going rogue and doing it my way!”? Instead of chasing results, focus on who you want to be. This shift—from doing to becoming—is where real transformation happens. It all starts with aligning with your Human Design.

Why Traditional Resolutions Don’t Work

Traditional goal-setting ignores the foundation of sustainable change: your identity. When your goals aren’t rooted in alignment with who you truly are, they’ll always feel like a struggle. The result? Burnout, frustration, and the same resolutions year after year.

The Aligned Way: Using Human Design to Redefine Your Year

Your Human Design is a blueprint for how you’re meant to operate in the world; your user manual. When you use your design to guide your identity, goals become effortless extensions of who you already are.?

Here’s how it works:

  • If you’re a Projector: This is the year to let go of overworking and embrace the power of meaningful recognition. Instead of setting 10 goals, focus on being seen for your expertise. Less is more for you.
  • If you’re a Manifesting Generator: Honor your multi-passionate nature. Set goals that allow you to pivot and explore rather than feeling boxed in by one thing.

The Goal

The goal here is to stop doing everything like everyone else and find what works for Y-O-U. Take it from someone (ME) who lived her life for everyone else, doing everything everyone else was doing instead of focusing on what felt right and made her happy...

Living anything but an authentic life will only prolong years of anxiety & stress. You can convince yourself that everything is "fine" because you have a few good days, but after a while, you look in the mirror and can't even recognize the person looking back at you.

It happened to me and it DOES NOT have to happen to you. That's why I do what I do for women like you :)

Journal Prompts to Reflect on Who You Want to Be

You may be thinking to yourself, "Ok Alex, that sounds great but where the F do I even start??"

You start with self-awareness and one of my favorite ways to do that is to journal.

Grab a journal and reflect on these questions:

  1. Who do I truly want to become in 2025?
  2. What would it look like to live in alignment with my purpose every day??
  3. What beliefs, habits, or goals do I need to release to embody this version of me?
  4. What beliefs, habits, or goals do I need to implement to embody this version of me?
  5. What are some internal or mental obstacles that get in my way that I need to overcome?

This is The Year

This is the year you BECOME the woman who no longer has to chase—because she’s already living in alignment with her purpose.

Ready to discover how your unique design can guide your 2025 identity? Book a Free Audit Today.

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