Reprogramming your Mind with Awesome Positivity for High Performance

Psychologist's in their research and analysis on reasons behind failures in various aspects of personal or work life, have come to the conclusion that the major factors for individual's failing or being unsuccessful at work, relationships or underperformance in delivering a task assigned, is mainly due to the inherent subconscious “Fear of Rejection”, “the Fear of Criticism”, “Fear of Failure”, “Oh! Will I be successful this time around” Subconscious programming & thought patterns created based on past results & experiences, that create obstacles, even before you have gone about executing the task at hand.

The possibilities are immense and a world of opportunities present themselves, when you choose to take the required steps to  overcome your 'Fears', by first taking the steps to get your 'Inner Life', your inner source of energy in order & balance, by introspecting, geting in touch with your thought process, feelings, emotions, realising & accepting the facts that of ‘Rejection’, ‘Criticism’, ‘being demoralised by opinions of others’, failures in the past, were experience's 'I' went through. Once I accept the past realities & experience's, I then make the conscious choice in a silent, powerful, meditative state of mind by consistently sending positive affirmations and declarations at the conscious level. With my constant & consistent verbal auditory powerful affirmations, I  am able to send the message loud & clear to my subconscious mind, that going forward from this moment in time, I will not let these experience's & feelings undermine my value or impact my ‘Self Worth’.

To build my 'Self Worth' & 'Self Belief',  the focus should be to re-program the subconscious mind, and to do that I now shift my focus in a reflective state and thereon  revisit and get in touch with my past positive achievements, no matter how small, re-experience the 'Wow' & 'AAh' exhilarting positive emotions & awesome feelings and the excited frame of mind I was in on achieving my small wins . In a reflective, meditative, introspective mode I dive deep down to get in touch with my empowering, enthusiastic thought patterns & reconnect with my 'wow' feelings experienced during my past achievements, the energy derived from there gets me slowly but surely develop a robust, courageous, positive thought patterns, that slowly over a period of time gets me to once again move towards building a positive self image, a personality that has a ‘Positive Bent’. The power of rewiring my mind at the subconscious level enables me to move into the positive relam and consciously adapt an approach that is energetic & joyous, gets me to develope a bold & confident perspective that gets me to enthusiastically go about meeting & addressing my every day challenges with zest and constructive energy.

To be successful in work deliverables, relationships & people interactions, to create IMPACT in one’s personal and professional life, one could definitely implement the below mentioned proactive approach and positive engagement and experience first hand the awesome gifts in store for you from the benevolent Universe.

 #1 :  Be Positive

• The first thumb rule is to Introspect your life experiences, accept your failures, reconcile the hurts & pains of your failed relationships, in silence through the introspective method get in touch with your past negative feelings & understand how they impact your current thought patterns and work towards eliminating them.
• To imprint the required empowering positive changes you consciously work on creating an entire 'MINDSET SHIFT', by rewiring & reprograming your mind at the subconscious level by examining your negative experience's, feelings, take a close look at your belief systems, all the possible information you received as a child at the 'THETA' Level and you do this from a third person perspective.
• You make the conscious choice to strech out by unconditionally accepting all your experience's and thus set the healing process at the subconscious level, by repeatedly declaring & affirming positive statments over my life, 'I choose to be happy from this time forward', 'Today is a transformational day in my life'. 
• You make the choice & decision that from this time going forward, you will surround your self only with positive enthusiastic individuals, those that love you for the person that you are, those that accept you unconditionally & encourage you to approach life’s situations with a positive mindset.
• The beauty of building a positive mindset is that ' The Universe' in its benevolence & graciousness, provides & presents positive people with opportunities & solutions, even when faced with crisis and challenging situations.
• A Positive mindset gets you to look out for the silver lining, even when the circumstances and situations are at times not in your favour.
• A Positive Mindset gets you to be proactive and in all humility to reach out for assistance, guidance, as you understand that to be successful, you need to associate with ' the right & bright people', who will willingly with no strings attached assist you in your quest to find solutions to reach your objective.
• A Positive Mindset gets you understand that the truth of the matter, that People are always willing to assist ‘positive & proactive’ individuals, with their time, expertise, guidance & solutions, especially the one's who have the intense desire to learn & grow.  

#2 :  Listen & Observe

• To climb up the success ladder you need not reinvent the wheel. The super efficient way is to  learn the tricks and tips to master excellence, by observing the work ethics of successful people.
• To be Successful be flexible, be OPEN Minded, LISTEN to feedback of your peers & LISTEN to what your customers have to say.
• Observation & Listening is the Key to Growth. The more you observe keenly, the more you develop the art of patience & the ability of being a patient listener, gets you to understand the deep need of your Client.
• The quickest way to go up the success ladder is to develop the ability to LISTEN & OBSERVE. The more you OBSERVE and the more you genuinely LISTEN to need of your customers, you intrinsically develop the art of being empathetic, you develop a two way bond & in you being sensitive, caring &  attentive to the needs of your customers, you are able to take required proactive actions, create win:win Transactions and genuinely ensure 'CLIENT DELIGHT'.
• #3 : Surround Yourself  with Experts
• Surround yourself & be in the company of experienced individuals, Keep away from the ego enhancer’s viz., the YES Men & YES Women clique.
• Be comfortable with individuals who are smarter, talented, superior in their skills, abilities and capabilities.
• Associate with people who are capable, specialists & experts in their field, this helps you to grow intellectually and learn the skills required to be successful in executing the task at hand.
• Remember that Learning to be effective & productive is an ongoing and continuous process.
• In moments of doubt, be open to seek guidance from mentors, so you up your learning curve, to be effective in qualitative work execution and qualitative delivery.

#4 :  Consistency & Laser Sharp Focus

• Prioritise tasks, be super focused and work on activities that will help you to achieve set targets.
• Understand the importance & value of the discipline of Time Management, do not procrastinate rather take TIMELY & CONSISTENT ACTION.
• Be consistent & accountable in your delivery process and let your approach to execution of work be “Get it RIGHT the FIRST TIME

#5 : 4Ps : Persistence, Perseverance, Patience & Professional Guidance

• The biggest strength with rewiring your self at the 'subconscious level' is that you accept yourself as you are, it is you who are in charge & control and you decide to  set the value of  your 'Self Worth'. This conscious decision gets you to develop a proactive, positive mindset, which creates a bold, confident personality that is ready to face & take on life’s challenges with great tenacity, persistence, perseverance and awesome patience.
• You develop the virtue of focus, where you keep your eyes on the goal and do not let unforeseen circumstances or obstacles that lead to delay, discourage you. You now operate in the 'Positive Realm' calm & centered, for you understand tomorrow is a new day and that in the nearest possible time great things are in store for you.
• You develop a great sense of 'Self Belief' and with awesome objectivity you keep your eyes on the 'Big Picture", you push aside any rejections, criticisms that are thrown at you and you enthusiastically move forward with persistence, perseverance & single minded focus to achieve your desired set goals.
• You take pride in your work & deliverables and endure to perform every task with a great sense of 'accountability',  'responsibility' & 'ownership'. Excuses are not a part of your vocabulary.
• Along with work, efforts and focussed execution, You are open & flexible to have an audience with the experts, as you understand that the journey is easier and the desired goal & objective can be reached in the quickest possible time with a Mentor and Coach.

Positive ‘Self Belief’ in one’s ability, regular “Positive Affirmations” even when you are in the midst of insurmountable challenges, the go-for-it, let get-it-done mindset, subconsciously builds & strengthens internal mental resources viz. ‘Courage & Tenacity’.

Management gurus like Robin Sharma, Brian Tracy, Stephen Covey, Tim Harv Eker, Christy Whitman, John Assaraf, Brendan Bucchman, Vincent Norman, Richard Bandler in their respective research and interactions with successful individuals, have discovered that the mind can be re-trained, thinking realigned. Negative experiences, impressions & thought patterns imprinted in the mind at the 'subconscious level ' in our childhood where the mind is extremely receptive to everything that it sees and hears, can be reprogrammed and get the individual to move from failure to achieve awesome success.

It is our belief systems developed over a period of time which could be our 'Success Blockers', can all togather be eliminated by consciously reprogramming the Mind at the 'Subconscious' level.  

Our primary focus should be to identify our 'Success Blockers' and then we work on eliminating the negative 'Self Beliefs' by re-enforcing & realigning our thinking process. We consciously replace our negative thought process & negative beliefs with 'Powerful Empowering Positive Beliefs', which over a period of time become our 'Success Enhancers' that gets us to  be proactive in our approach, be bold, confident, energised & enthusiastic, as we face challenging situations with an enthusiastic positive proactive approach that enables us to successfully execute any task at hand.  

Above all when you go through life's moments where you find yourself at your worst, with deep faith be assured that your loving 'God' is at his very Best. Time and again get in touch with the positive experiences stored at your subconscious level, restore & reinforce the belief in deep faith that the benevolent universe is supernaturally & graciously working on your behalf, to bestow upon you favour and success.

All it requires of you is to make your decision to shift your 'Thinking' into the 'Positive Realm' and the awesome, amazing, fantabulous outcome, "You would be amazed & pleasently surprised to find that your transformed belief system, will get you to achieve your desired goals in the quickest possible time".

Stephen Lawrence Moras | Behavioral & Sales Trainer | Leadership Coach

Email:  [email protected] |Learning & Development Specialist

Synopsis Extract from theTraining Session conducted for the leadership team at Rheimer Schief Inc. 24th May 2016