Remembering my own piano man
Kenneth Strong
Transformational Leader | Digital Marketing Strategist | Leadership Coach & Author
My Own Piano Man
The dog woke me in the usual way by blowing air in my face,?followed by two heavy front paws draped over my side. There was?no way he was going to let me sleep for just five more minutes. This morning he was unusually early, around 5:30 a.m. I stumbled down the stairs, rubbing my eyes in a determined effort to focus my vision to avoid falling over the dog or down the stairs.
?On my way through the kitchen, I stopped at the kitchen sink, ran cold?water, and splashed my face to clear my thoughts. I looked across the sink out the double pane window, into the garden below where the sun's rays were shining through the trees above like fingers flooding the ground with a warm glow. The top of the blooming?dogwood caught my eye; there was just one flower as bright as could be against the others in pre-dawn shadows. Seeing the single white blossom in the sun reminded me of a man I haven't thought of in thirty-two years.
Henry and I first met on a hot summer day. Henry was sitting in a lawn chair on the front patio of our family nursing home, looking?at the traffic on Main Street. In one hand, he held a small radio up against his ear, and the other hand was tapping very methodically on the chair's armrest.
?I stopped the lawnmower and asked?him if he thought he was playing the piano, and he said," Yeah." I?responded, "Good for you," and continued to mow the lawn. A week?or so went by, and I happened to be walking by the activities room, and sure enough, there was Henry with his transistor radio beside him playing the piano. I couldn't believe it. He could hear a song on the radio and then play it on the piano. Henry had never had one single piano lesson in his life. I was fascinated.?
Henry Diamond was a Native American from Martha's Vineyard with?jet black curly hair, eyes black as coal, and hands the size of?a first baseman's mitt. He stood about six foot five inches tall and was solidly built. To me, he looked like a skyscraper. I was?told that Henry was a loner, mentally retarded, withdrawn, and?very shy. We didn't talk very much for a while, but I noticed that if Henry had difficulty hearing the radio, he would become agitated and uncooperative with staff.
?So I bought him a new transistor?radio with an earplug. I put the plugin in his ear, turned on the?radio, and watched his eyes light up. He was like a kid in a candy store. Immediately I became Henry's new best friend.?And then the fun started.?
I found myself constantly talking about Henry's uncanny ability to play any song he heard on the piano in school. I suppose my?friends got sick and tired of me raving about Henry. Finally, someone said, "I'll bet you ten dollars he can't." That's all I needed to hear.
??Henry and I rolled the piano out of the activities room, down the hall into the elevator, and out into the back parking lot of the nursing home. We set both radios to the same station. I put in the earplug, and Henry began to play. Henry and I split the money and returned the piano.?
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?That first concert began a summer of Saturday afternoon?entertainment in the parking lot. On a few occasions, we had as many as twenty students listening in awe to Henry play. You should?have seen the look on Henry's face as they cheered and applauded?his performance.
??I made more money that summer at Henry's concerts than I did working at the nursing home. Henry was happy because he?had more money than he thought possible. In those days, the patient?needs monthly payment was just under twenty dollars.?
?Life was good until my father arrived in the back parking lot?during one of Henry's concerts. You should know that my father was the owner and administrator of the nursing home. My career as a concert promoter came to an abrupt halt. After my?father expressed his disappointment and how it was wrong to take?advantage of a patient, I had to put the money I'd won from the bets in the collection plate on Sunday.
??Henry got to keep his share,?which I was happy about because it helped him buy more things he wanted and needed. Somehow seeing Henry's face light up and the kids paying attention to him, showing him their pleasure, admiration, and awe, didn't seem like taking advantage of him in any way.?
?Every Saturday afternoon, Henry was a star. When he played, he was giving me a gift, the only gift he had. When I look at my music CD collection today and see that majority of?it is piano-related, I think of Henry. To me, he was as unique as the solitary white dogwood blossom, one of a kind.?
?That summer with Henry taught me two things. First, Henry showed me to look beyond what I think I see. The phrase, "You can't judge a book by its cover," comes to mind. Each person we encounter has a musical score in them that can make all the difference in your life if you look diligently for it, beyond their physical?appearance, ethnic background, education, religion, where they live, or the color of their skin. The music is there and worth discovering. You may find you've got a hit song on your hands.?
?The second thing I learned was to block off the back parking lot. I'd bet Henry could have paid for a private room if I had?blocked that driveway.?
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